Wait what?
Are you Delianie Walker in disguise?
I'll just add this, it's not entirely your fault. It's a thankless labor of love for a few who put in the time and effort.
Preset ordering firewalls might have helped, but managing this is a lot of work, and this community is grateful that we are even allowed to do this.
I certainly don't want any member whether brand new or joined at the Dawn of BF to feel alienated.
For those new members or ones who don't meet prerequisites...stick around and pull up a chair. Engage and share with fellow members. If you sit quietly outside staring in the window people won't get to know you.
Unless your an axe murderer. Then maybe it's best if you stay outside.
*disclaimer*. This post is purely my opinion and worth zero monies.