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Well hell Uwinv, I sure wish I had some magical advice for you.:( But I do have lots of ~Smoke~ and ~Song~ I can impart on your behalf and you can consider them already started for whatever they're worth to you....:thumbup:

The guys that have said, "Marriage is work." are spot on but it's not just work for one partner but both and as also has been mentioned "Commitment" is a huge part of marriage but you've been around long enough as well as seen enough to know that. I do pray that whatever happens you come out of it better than I did after my first wife and I split up, even if our marriage was over long before that happened.

As always, my email box is posted if you think I could be of help.:)
 
Jeff Buckley is good music for down times.
Smoke sent & I hope things work out for the best for you two.
 
Thanks, everybody. :(

My mentor teacher at the high school where I've been student teaching is trying to be released at the end of this semester. He'd like for me to take over. I talked to the principal today.

I sent Jordy a text message before I spoke with the principal, telling her I would probably be able to get a job in January here, and wanting to know if there was any chance we could work things out, since I would take the job instead of doing something like commissioning, if it gave us a better chance to stay together. She said she didn't want to be with me. :( Not much you can really say to that.

I'll be okay, eventually, guys. Some things have had to change in our relationship. Change comes, one way or another, I reckon.

John
 
Aw crap.

I'm really sorry to hear this.

Eat when you can, talk to us when you feel like it and make no hasty decisions....that's the best I can come up with.

Of course, prayers up from the west coast for you both.
 
You're in my thoughts, John. Things will work out. If you need us, lean and lean hard. We're always here for you.
 
Well, thats a tough one bro. You're welcome to come over and get drunk with me.

I'm always up for that. You can make a knife while you're here too. Not a half bad deal really.
 
Thanks for all the kind thoughts and prayers, guys. We can't save others, and it's really hard knowing I can't really do much to positively influence Jordy anymore. She came home at 4:50 AM. :(

I'm going to come through this. Thursday night I got together with a friend, and we walked for a while, and then hung out. Last night I had dinner with another friend, and then hung out at a part for a couple of hours. It's a start.

Guidance is the thing I need most now, I suppose. Clarity can't hurt, either.

John
 
I'm sorry it's going down that way for you. It's been my experience that the talking usually only starts, when she has already made up her mind. Always the same struggle. :(

Maybe you should stop listening to sad Leonard Cohen songs, for a start...(though Hallelujah is a great sad song, acknowledged)

Best of luck, and continued ~smoke~

Keno
 
I'm now eating a reasonable amount again, though everyone at work can tell I've lost weight in the last two weeks. I'm making myself exercise, too.
 
I've found that running helps when you feel like you're about to explode and do something irrational. Smoke and prayers and good thoughts.
 
From what I leaned - dont(!) drink. Eat. Exercise [a lot]. Will keep your thoughts occupied, plus you can easily gain 20 pounds ;)

Hang in there.

Keno
 
Man that sucks bro. Be very careful now. If she's dating, then you need to remove yourself from the premises. Move out. Don't kill some dipsh** for coming home with your wife.
 
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