This is why I do not ever use friends and family and it irks me when people do not factor in fees to their price. I'm sorry this is going to take 2.9% + 30 cents from you, but I am not going to purchase from you with zero protection for a 3% discount. I wish people would stop even suggesting this.
On another token, typically with trades in the computer community that I browse we always deal with the swap as two separate transactions rather than item for item so that both buyers have protection. Yes this is a bit of a hassle and paypal ends up taking a small chunk, but if you are questioning a buyer this is an easy way to get protection.
As for posting all of the personal information of the accused, I really don't like that. Absolutely go ahead and ban a user or pm the mods with as much info as possible to see if they can possibly sort out multiple accounts from one user and stuff like that but we really don't need to be digging around people's personal lives and trying to deal damage as far into their life as we can. Flush them from the system and leave them be. In most communities posting someones personal information is a bannable offense. Apparently it is not so in this one, but still it is best not to attack people's personal lives.
On another token, typically with trades in the computer community that I browse we always deal with the swap as two separate transactions rather than item for item so that both buyers have protection. Yes this is a bit of a hassle and paypal ends up taking a small chunk, but if you are questioning a buyer this is an easy way to get protection.
As for posting all of the personal information of the accused, I really don't like that. Absolutely go ahead and ban a user or pm the mods with as much info as possible to see if they can possibly sort out multiple accounts from one user and stuff like that but we really don't need to be digging around people's personal lives and trying to deal damage as far into their life as we can. Flush them from the system and leave them be. In most communities posting someones personal information is a bannable offense. Apparently it is not so in this one, but still it is best not to attack people's personal lives.