Terrible experience with SmedleyButler

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Gents, i may not have much (or any) feedback on these boards but i stand behind everything i sell 100%. My username on watchuseek forums is the same (you can PM me there). I recently opened a sales thread () where i offered 3 Strider knives for sale.

SmedleyButler wanted to buy the SnG DGG but pointed to my lack of feedback and requested that i send the knife to him first, promising to pay and leave stellar feedback on receipt. After a lengthy discussion i finally agreed. The knife was sent fully insured using priority mail (included in the price) and this morning i received an angry PM from mr SmedleyButler telling me that he wants to send the knife back as he "suspects" it is a fake. Before i can even respond to the PM he posts in my sales thread. I respond via PM providing the buyer with a link to an online receipt/history of purchase of the knife at KnifeArt.com asking SmedleyButler to call them up to verify it if he is still in doubt. I also offer to have the knife sent to KnifeArt and/or Strider for authentication. This has absolutely no effect on SmedleyButler. He also tells me "you sold this knife before" - where clearly i never did. I ask for an ounce of proof and get nothing. He then continues to post in my sales thread while sending me a PM saying that i should forget what that he thinks its a fake and just consider the fact that he just does not want it anymore and wants to send it back.

Now i ask you gents - is this acceptible behavior? I bend backwards, pay for 2-day shipping, offer the actual receipt (i have receipts for all 3 Striders as well as the used one i sold before) - all of this without seeing a cent from the buyer and now i have to accept it being sent back to me (in god knows what shape if even the same knife) and eat the time and cost already invested?

After i tell this person that this is mail fraud this is the response i get:

"You can go fuck yourself and I'll throw this piece of shit in the trash, or you can give me your mailing address and I'll send it back to you, at my expense. This is my last message to you. If you are right and it isn't a fake, then what's the problem? If I'm right, then the only mail fraud has been committed by you."

Now my reputation is being trashed by someone who DID NOT EVEN PAY FOR WHAT HE RECEIVED, ignored all presented proof and responded in the way you see above. Not cool at all.

SmedleyButler - if you received the knife and changed your mind for whatever reason (lack of funds? saw another one you wanted more? It didn't fit your grip well?) - you could have explained it to me and we could have worked things out but what you did is just unacceptable. This is no way to treat anyone, especially someone who did everything possible to satisfy you while handing you an expensive item without seeing a cent from you.

Shame on you SmedleyButler.

My Strider receipts are available upon request should anyone doubt anything i stated in my sales threads or this post.

To everyone reading this: I would never buy or sell a clone/fake knife (or anything for that matter). If i list an item as flawless - it is. I accommodate most requests, i never refuse payment as goods and services, i answer all questions and can supply all of the proof requested whenever it may be requested. I obviously made a mistake trusting this individual but this will not make me not trust the next guy - i am just never ever sending anything prior to receipt of full payment. As for SmedleyButler - i firmly believe in the saying "what goes around comes around" and i hope that one day he understands why he shouldn't have done what he did.

Edit: as requested I posted (page 3) a photo of the printed receipt I received from the dealer that sold me this knife.

Additionally, just because I am staying cool, calm and polite does not mean that I take being treated like shit lightly. Neither does it speak of weakness. On the contrary - I simply chose not to sink down to the level of behavior displayed by the accuser. Trust me, I am not ok with this at all and I am taking this matter very seriously.
 
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My PM to you said "I don't want to start an online fight, but I think the knife is a clone and want to send it back" that is exactly what I wrote and nothing more. You then went off, threatening me, etc. I never asked you to forget that I think it is fake, I told you that regardless of the 'WHY', I just want to send it back. Ultimately, I did tell you that you could go fuck yourself because you refused to verify your current mailing address so that I could ship the knife back to you. Glad I did. I've had the knife for about 45 minutes. I'll ship it back today in the exact condition I received it. My reputation here is spotless because I am a man of my word. You are a shady dude.
 
My PM to you said "I don't want to start an online fight, but I think the knife is a clone and want to send it back"

Yes, that is what your PM said.

You then went off, threatening me, etc.

I did not threaten you. I didn't even have time to respond to the PM when you started posting in my thread.

I never asked you to forget that I think it is fake, I told you that regardless of the 'WHY', I just want to send it back.

Your PM in my inbox states "Forget that i think it's a clone" - word for word.

Ultimately, I did tell you that you could go fuck yourself because you refused to verify your current mailing address so that I could ship the knife back to you.

I did not refuse anything but asked you if you thought it was ok to do what you were doing. I honestly was in pure disbeleif as to what was happening. Additionally - my first PM response to you contained my name and address on the receipt from KnifeArt.com which i sent you - MY FIRST RESPONSE!

My reputation here is spotless because I am a man of my word. You are a shady dude.

I'm sorry, can someone here please explain to me what exactly makes me a shady dude? Which action on my part or which statement?

Do you have any proof, even a tiny bit, or any type of evidence that made you "think" it's a clone/fake? Did the receipt i sent you not prove otherwise? Did my offer to have Strider/KnifeArt verify the purchase and the knife not prove otherwise? How can you still accuse me of anything?

Guys, be very careful with this person. Never send anything in advance and be prepared - even if you have everything documented and even if you can verify everything through 3-rd parties - this person may still attempt to do what he just did to me.
 
My PM to you said "I don't want to start an online fight, but I think the knife is a clone and want to send it back" that is exactly what I wrote and nothing more. You then went off, threatening me, etc. I never asked you to forget that I think it is fake, I told you that regardless of the 'WHY', I just want to send it back. Ultimately, I did tell you that you could go fuck yourself because you refused to verify your current mailing address so that I could ship the knife back to you. Glad I did. I've had the knife for about 45 minutes. I'll ship it back today in the exact condition I received it. My reputation here is spotless because I am a man of my word. You are a shady dude.

As you are not challenging the statement that you required receipt of the knife before paying for it, let's assume it is correct.

Although no one held a gun to the OP's head to do the deal , I think your requirement is quite "shady"
 
As you are not challenging the statement that you required receipt of the knife before paying for it, let's assume it is correct.

Although no one held a gun to the OP's head to do the deal , I think your requirement is quite "shady"

I agree with this. No matter what else happened after that, it started out on the shady side. If this were a trade, you have every right to request it shipped first. But purchasing something, that leaves the seller with zero recourse if it were to turn out poorly. More or less the sellers equivalent of buyers using PayPal gift.
 
As you are not challenging the statement that you required receipt of the knife before paying for it, let's assume it is correct.

Although no one held a gun to the OP's head to do the deal , I think your requirement is quite "shady"


Really? I take this forum seriously and IMO, it's all about the feedback. I was concerned about buying from a guy who claimed he had sold tons of knives here but had ZERO feedback. I told him I'd only buy if he sent it first. I did that to protect myself from getting ripped off...Glad I did. he had the option to simply say no. When I got the knife I immediately knew I didn't want it. I believe it is a clone. Why? because I have 3 other SnG's and none feel like this one. Regardless, I was completely dissatisfied and told him so and that I wanted to send it back. I don't know about the rest of you, but if I sold something on this forum and the buyer told me that he didn't want it once he received it, I'd just take it back. I asked ROUNIC to CONFIRM his address, so I could ship it to the right place. He refused. Now we're all wasting our time with this nonsense. The knife will be shipped back ASAP.
 
I was concerned about buying from a guy who claimed he had sold tons of knives here but had ZERO feedback.

I never claimed that. I did sell knives here - look through my posts, but i never claimed to have sold tons. I also offered you my username on watchuseek by the way - you could have PMed me there.

because I have 3 other SnG's and none feel like this one.

Are you serious right now? Really? Are all of your SnGs DGGs with Cerakote CPM 154? All of them with the latest geometry? But wait... what about my receipt and my offer to have the manufacturer and retailer both verify the knife? You said i sold this knife before and i sold another arctic grey SnG which was not DGG as this one. You really know your Striders don't you?

Regardless, I was completely dissatisfied and told him so and that I wanted to send it back.

Am i a storefront where you just come in and try stuff out? What were you dissatisfied with exactly? My shipping speed? The fact that you didn't pay for anything? The fact that the knife was exactly as described in NiB condition and even packed in the original KnifeArt plastic with a KnifeArt sticker and KnifeArt silica? The fact that the item came fully insured? What is is that dissatisfied you???

I asked ROUNIC to CONFIRM his address, so I could ship it to the right place. He refused. Now we're all wasting our time with this nonsense.

A) As i stated - my first response to you was the full receipt for the knife from KnifeArt with my full name and address on it. That wasn't enough? B) The only person who's time and money was wasted here is me. I will take this as a lesson but you sir are not an honest and decent person.
 
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PayPal "goods" gives you that "buyers" protection from getting ripped off.

Yep! It's not reasonable to ask or expect someone to send an item without payment first (reagardless of feedback or not) as that leaves the seller with absolutely nothing. However, OP did agree to those terms so he took the risk.

However, as a buyer, I think it's good and standard practice to just pay for the item (PayPal Goods of course) you're BUYING before it gets sent. It's not a 'try before you buy'. If something is wrong, there's still recourse in getting your money back like with any normal transaction.

Regardless, hopefully the knife finds it's way home the same way it was sent and everyone ends up back at square one and the matter can be put to rest!
 
Yep! It's not reasonable to ask or expect someone to send an item without payment first (reagardless of feedback or not) as that leaves the seller with absolutely nothing. However, OP did agree to those terms so he took the risk.

However, as a buyer, I think it's good and standard practice to just pay for the item (PayPal Goods of course) you're BUYING before it gets sent. It's not a 'try before you buy'. If something is wrong, there's still recourse in getting your money back like with any normal transaction.

Regardless, hopefully the knife finds it's way home the same way it was sent and everyone ends up back at square one and the matter can be put to rest!

This!
 
send me the knife and when it gets here ill pay for it?


Wow.

Yeah, i know, it was stupid of me to go for this deal. At one point i actually PMed the buyer telling him it does not feel right (when he asked me "Is this the same knife you sold before?" - obviously referring to another arctic SnG which was not DGG - which i did point out to him) but he insisted telling me how stellar his feedback is and how clean his reputation is. Needless to say, yeah, i am really upset. I handle all of my non-user knives with great care and i would really hate to see this one messed up when (if?) it comes back.

P.S: The buyer still hasn't removed his comment in my sales thread. What a great honest individual, right?
 
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SmedleyButler just got added to a bunch of do not deal lists.

I'm not shipping a knife or what have you to a member unless I have payment.

Of course, Exceptions for a ton of members here I trust, and have done deals with in the past, or am friends with.
 
send me the knife and when it gets here ill pay for it?


Wow.

+1 or more like, i'll play with until I get bored then make up some story so that I don't actually have to pay for it now.

Its a shame that if and when OP gets the knife back it will have renege all over it. Cant sell it as new anymore.:thumbdn::thumbdn:
 
I'm sorry but telling anyone to go F---k themselves is inappropriate and immature, especially when funds were never exchanged. I do a lot of business online and in my opinion it sounds like buyer's remorse. Just return the knife and get on with your lives. No need to keep bickering between the two of you.
 
I agree, the Paypal Goods would protect the buyer, should have paid when the deal was struck, not after the knife arrived.

However, the deal isn't done until both parties are happy. For whatever reason the buyer wasn't happy when he got the knife, he should send it back ASAP and both parties walk away (with another name for their ignore lists.)
 
I wouldn't have even started this thread if the buyer didn't show blunt disrespect and didn't accuse me of selling him a fake while also posting in my sales thread without giving me reasonable time to respond to his PMs. There is zero reason to send the knife back in terms of its authenticity, fit, finish, functionality and condition. Zero reason in terms of shipping and packaging. Only reason was the buyer changing his mind for whatever reason he had personally. Maybe he didn't like my name or my handwriting on the shipping label, maybe he just decided to spend the money elsewhere. Whatever it was - he shouldn't have treated someone who did everything possible to make it a pleasant purchase experience like complete shit. It is just not right.

As for the condition in which the knife arrives back in - yeah i will not re-list it as new again and when i do re-list it (unless it comes back completely messed up (or a different knife) in which case i am going after the seller for mail fraud) i will list it as used and will reference this post so that the buyer is comfortable with full disclosure.
 
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Blow me Rounic. The knife will come back just as you sent it...A Chinese clone in great condition. The knife is a knock off and not even a great one. Maybe you did buy a real one at one time, but this isn't it. I buy knives here EVERY WEEK for a long time now. Got one today from PACPAL in fact. It's not cost, it's not buyers remorse, I just am not going to keep a clone.
 
Rounic, never ever ship anything to anyone unless it's paid for first. Always demand Goods/Services through PayPal. It protects everyone.
Don't be surprised if the knife comes back in worse condition than you sent it. That's even if you get it back.
Always remember, it only takes one "Oh crap" to ruin anyone's spotless feedback record.
 
No opinion either way (three sides to every story, and all that), but it is interesting that someone receives a knife from another forum member, but has NO idea how to send it back.
My local post office won't accept packages without a return address and my shipping companies (UPS, FedEx) won't accept a package without info on the sender.

That said: demanding a knife without payment, even if the seller has only one post here, is shady. PayPal protects buyers and sellers alike from issues with bad deals (no, it ain't perfect, but nothing in life is).

In this case, a seller took a big risk in trusting someone by sending a knife to a "trusted" person without being paid first (on various forums, I've seen high-post-count members - even moderators - do some pretty shitty things, so your post count don't mean shit to me on any level, in any thread, on any forum). The "buyer" then seemed to have a change of heart as the stated reasons for not wanting the knife don't seem to jibe with reality, and his defense is not strong.

It'd be interesting to know the absolute truth here.
 
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