""I was upset with it, but I can understand that. They have the zero-tolerance rule."
Sheep, let him live with it then.
A lot of infants are very cute and you can tell they are going to be good looking human beings. A lot of infants look like something out of a horror film but you don't go around telling the parents that, right?
Even some of those unpleasant looking infants could grow up to be beautiful or handsome, but you don't go around telling the absolute truth about it all the time. I have yet to hear a person tell the unvarnished truth about an ugly infant, "That baby is something else all right." You get out in the parking lot and the guy says, "God Almighty that is one homely child."
There is a time to keep things private which is most of the time. And there is a time to LIE when you are doing the right thing and someone else wishes to do the wrong thing to you. Simple as that.
I got rather discouraged in here about a month or so ago and took a break. Everyone wants the 1-800-RATBASTARD society and now they have it. But they only want it when they see fit to have it. This is what you get.