for your compassion and kindness

Getting the shaft from another member of BF is something
NEW for me. Matter of fact, in 24 years of Gun-trading, I never had a trade or a sale that could not be resolved via E-mail, and in the one year or so of trading/buying on bf, (never did sell too many

) every transaction went smooth.
There were alot of false promises made in this trade for my two Spydercos. As of this moment, the consenus value is $35.00 each. Now, I finally have an idea of the value. I made every attempt possible to ascertain this
BEFORE posting these for trade after finding them in my kitchen "junk-drawer ( Most Kitchens have on of these drawers!)
Jared and I had no problems communicating in the beginning, hell we were "Buddies". I was also trying to move a NIB MOD Hornet auto that causght Jared's eye and wanted to work this knife into some part of this trade, so the Hornet was pulled from the "for sale Board". AS I had not one clue to the current Vakue Sheldon, I made the mistake of
TRUSTING another member of BF..............My bad. Since Jared appeared honest and sincere in his posts, made me believe he has some sort of "knife business on E-bay" and seemed genuine, I simply let me guard down and shipped them to Jared, asking for only a
FAIR-TRADE in return.
Jared E-mailed me a couple of times. The first E-mail was to acknowledge receipt of the two used knives, and top comment what "nice condition" they are in for being 1986-ish. Next he e-mailed me to ask if one had a screw "missing" after he ran them both through his Mommy's dishwasher. being the hot-shot cop, I gave him some training in "crime scene searching" and low and behold the screw was recovered. Again, some nice words were offered and jared posted in GB&U what a nice guy I am and what a smooth trade this has been.
Then an E-mail apology about some delay on his part shipping back the Multi-tool. He and I were using my other E-mail address at the time:
wolfmann@aol.com. ( I have
yet to post these). No problem I replied, afterall he is a member of BF. Jared added he was going to look through his collection of multi-tools and pick out a "nice leatherman". (how would I know he has more than one Multi-tool and Leathermen?).
Finally, the E-mail that the Multi-tool is on it's way to NH. Hope I enjoy it. Picture my surprise when all I found was a
GERBER 400 in that nasty Bubble-wrap with just the little instruction pamphlet. No sheath, no box, just a Gerber 400...Period. I banged out my first E-mail (see above). I get back an E-mail that says simply: "I do not understand". I explain that a POS Gerber in no way represents a fair trade and to work this out to
PREVENT a Flame-war on BF as nobody will come out a winner ( see E-mail above).
Now there are no answers to my E-mails and I am e-mailing often. I post a generic "what if" on GB&U without the mention of any names. I did try to prevent this. Jared decides to post and identify himself and throw out some serious false statements. Then he goes on to state one knife tip is broken. I E-mail him to inform him I have numerous "pre-ship" photos of both knives and when My wife packaged them, both had tips as the photos clearly depict. I add that I did ship them insured so send me a photo, or the knife so I can file a claim with the USPS. No response. nothing. Then it ends up with him calling me a troll here and on other forums. matter of fact Sheldon, he followed
ME around to inser something derogatory about my character several times. I am not normally thin-skinned but this guy now has made this whole issue appear as an intentional scam.
Now Sheldon, if I am willing to shake down a scammer all the way to Ireland for a few members of BF, why would anyone expect me to just post
ONCE how I got burned by another member of BF, just "roll-over" and let time pass so that this is forgotten? If Jared would act in an adult and responsible fashion, he would have answered my E-mail, explained how the tip got broken, offer a photo, and allow me to file that claim. better yet, he he just used the private E-mail, this
NEVER would have appeared here to begin with.
That's the biggest problem I have found with BF Sheldon. people engage in a "Deal" (Funny word Deal, huh?)here on BF, and if one gets the very short end of the stick intentionally, and the other BF member fails to do what's right a post or 100 appear here on GB&U. then three weeks later all is forgotten and the person screwed rmains screwed, the "screwer" remains "Uunjustly enriched" but can continue to conduct business as usual. I would then just be
ANOTHER BF "Victim".
No sir Sheldon, not me. I refuse to be a victim and just go quietly away and allow Sunshine to own those two Spydercos for a Gerber 400. if not for Essav Benjamin and his kindness and compassion, I would be stuck with a Gerber 400. But Ed now owns this tool after trading me for a Leatherman "Wave". And to the others who have kindly offered to make this right, Thank you. But jared needs to make this right. A simple "I screwed up" would be OK with me. But if he is not going to respond to my E-mails except to continually upload attachments that contain folders
LOADED with the exact same photo that I posted on this Board depicting the Spyderco Hunter and the Worker. This done simply to push my buttons. but not once even being kind enough to say "why".
So Sheldon, you are embarassed and ashamed of "both of us?" What did I do other than to place TRUST in another member of BF. If you and I engaged in a trade and you sent me a knice knife for one of those coveted A/F's that you love so dearly and I treated you to this, would you simply post once and move forwrd?. maybe you should cahge you sig line to : get screwed but cry only once and then shut up. For me, being a "victim" is something I promised myself never to allow
TWICE. And the fact remains that I got screwed on this deal, and by jared's actions and the way he has responded to this;
INTENTIONALLY. Until Spark tells me to quit, I intend to dog jared all the way to
IRELAND/b] if he shopuld decide to move in with Simon until Jared makes this trade FAIR.
Afterall Sheldon, this board is called the Good, bad & UGLY, and when another formite finds it necessary to burn another over a $70.00 trade and then refuses to step up to the palate, it was destined to become UGLY and this is the appropriate board.
BTW, don't trade with me. At last count there were a few others in this great world of other's that happily take my money or happily trade with me, and treat me FAIRLY and HONESTLY.
Ira