Stumbled over this thread and was shocked it’s still alive.
What the OP mentioned about poor treatment of new members wasn’t my experience here but I know it was for many.
Where I did experience all those negatives and far worse ones was in the JD.
This was mainly in the balisong/butterfly threads.
The older members would admonish new members for mistakes that broke their site TOU!
Then these same Members would break the TOU repeatedly and consciously on the regular.
They were never admonished or penalized. They were given free will to do as they chose by the site owner. Who also would admonish new members. While ignoring all his old friends/comrades.
Basically they operated like Many police departments did and do in the southern United Snakes

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To include trying lynch members like myself who stood their ground and defended themselves against their nonstop onslaughts.
Now here’s the think. They all did it for one major reason. = they wanted to make new members run from the site so they wouldn’t buy the knives they were after



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Took me awhile before I figured it out too smdh. Now, here’s the conclusion. After all the shit I had to repulse/endure I then became respected by them

some begrudgingly so but still.
I don’t go there anymore because of how I was allowed to be treated.
Were this type of thing offline, it wouldn’t be tolerated and the price would be physical injury. It would be rare though because most folks online are wimpy asshats who won’t say shit to a man in front of him lol. The end