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I`m happy for you CM. It`s not always easy being a Christian, but it`s always worth it. I had to (and still have to) give up alot of things I would have liked to do, but the blessings I`ve recieved in my life more than make up for anything I`ve lost. I really liked what you said about Him finding you when you were ready to listen.
 
I am truly sorry that this is the impression that you have had. I have seen it too, being in the church my whole life. However, I can realize that pastors, like anyone else, are human and prone to fail and succumb to anything the average person can. Remember, mainline Christianity does not see their leaders as infallible, but as endeavoring to live a life "above reproach." That is, that they will live their lives as an example, though they will still fail. As I have stated, I am going to school to be a youth pastor. I screw up alot. I did drugs when I was younger and banged every chick I met. I also cuss like a sailor sometimes, though I have slowly been able to tame it somewhat. I think the fact that I realize this tempers me when I speak to those who are not Christian.

This is why I don't consider the character of individual Chritians in my judgment of Christianity.

I also find the remark about basically having some special claim to absolute truth alot when I talk to people outside of the church. You do realize that an atheist is saying the same thing, just on the other side, right? I say that there is a God while the atheist says that there is absolutely no way in hell (funny that most often they refer to something they claim not to believe in) that God exists. Everyone, in some form or another, claims a hold of their own absolute truth.

This is actually incredibly wrong. And I'm open to debating this in some other forum if you like, as I suspect that this thread will get shut down soon enough. First, before you can tell me about my position, you should learn what it is. This idea that atheists have some absolute belief that there is no god is terribly inaccurate and in most cases a strawman. I give you the benefit of the doubt and don't assume that you meant this as a strawman. The simple explanation is this: I have not seen an argument for god that I have found compelling. The arguments that I've seen have been heavily reliant on emotion, self contradicting, based primarily on rhetoric, etc. And because of those reasons, I've yet to accept any argument as valid.

But I know that I don't know everything, I'm always willing to consider new points to change my position. You see, I care only about truth, regardless of where it leads, regardless of my preferences. This is actually how I went from Christianity to Atheism. I studied the arguments objectively and came to my conclusions. I began by learning the Atheistic arguments so I'd know how to debate against them in order to defend Christianity and Theism in general.

Now the belief of holding absolute truth on the Theistic side, can prevent one from changing their position despite any evidence to the contrary. I'm not saying this is always the case, otherwise I'd still be Christian. But there certainly are teachings inherent in popular versions of Christianity that promote having "faith" no matter what. The "no matter what" part is key to having people disregard any compelling arguments or evidence that may conflict with their beliefs. In short, some Theists absolutely would not change their mind even if everything pointed to the idea that they were completely wrong about their fundamental beliefs.

I would agree with you to some extent here. Personally I don't give a damn if someone agrees with or respects my beliefs. It is not up to you, or anyone else, to judge me just as it is not my place to judge them.

I can disagree quite vehemently with a non-Christian in debate. It is not ever a reflecton of my view toward them as a person.

It is 0430, I have no idea if any of this even makes sense...

Makes sense to me. Thanks for your input.

Phil (more apologies to CM:o:thumbup:)
 
Phil,

I am always willing to carry on this discussion. The reason I say that atheists carry the absolute belief that there is no god is because that is what "atheist" means. The word literally refers to one who believes that there is no deity of any kind.

As far as believing regardless of any evidence to the contrary, that is where I am. After all, you cannot really prove a negative (the absence of a God). I have not found or heard anything that can sway what I believe.

And the CM, sorry for the derail, man. I'll shut up for now. This can go on in PM or something...
 
Phil,

I am always willing to carry on this discussion. The reason I say that atheists carry the absolute belief that there is no god is because that is what "atheist" means. The word literally refers to one who believes that there is no deity of any kind.


Yes, we can definitely take this out of this thread. I'm about to go to sleep but I'll send you a message tomorrow or the day after the latest. Atheist literally means "without god"- A Theist. So one that hasn't made the positive acceptance of a deity is an Atheist. There is a key difference. One is without a deity, like I currently am without an umbrella, and the other makes a positive claim that "It is impossible for deities to exist". So if one has not accepted Christ into their hearts for example, the she/he is an Atheist in that they didn't make any claims whatsoever about any gods, not that they have said that "any and all gods are impossible to exist".

As far as believing regardless of any evidence to the contrary, that is where I am. After all, you cannot really prove a negative (the absence of a God). I have not found or heard anything that can sway what I believe.

And the CM, sorry for the derail, man. I'll shut up for now. This can go on in PM or something...

Does this mean that even if I somehow show your arguments to be illogical, you won't consider it? If so, then there is no need to "debate" about it as it wouldn't be a debate. It would be you denying everything even if I have a point while trying to convince me of your position. If you start with the position that your judgment is infallible, then there can be no such thing as a debate for you on this topic.
 
I question the whole assertion that we have a "choice" in the matter at all. I'm an Atheist because none of the arguments for god that I've heard are convincing to me.
I've always found this one interesting, the arguments for God's existence being UN convincing. Is it convincing to you to believe that in the beginning was Null and out of the Null came Singularity, which then exploded/expanded into Infinity?? Out of No thing, Every thing?? That's as convincing to me as the Invisible mini Unicorn which follows you around everwhere.....If anything this "theory" ought be considered no more or less convincing as any theory of the existence of God.

I couldn't convince myself otherwise if I wanted to, in the same way that I couldn't choose to sincerely believe that an invisible and otherwise undetectable mini unicorn followed me around everywhere I went. I'd like to ask those that say that I have choice in whether I believe in god or not if they have a choice to believe that they didn't just read this sentence.
You have a choice to believe whichever arguement you wish and, rather than accepting an agnostic position you choose to believe that there is no God/god. You've taken these arguments for God's existence as proof of His NON existence, becuase they are unconvincing, to you; That's a choice you make. I find it interesting that more and more scientists are coming to the conclusion that there almost must be an organizer or designer since the "system" exhibits high levels of order and organization. At every currently apparant level.
Ultimatly, I personally choose to remain OPEN to the possiblity that I am wrong. I try to remain truthful, that is committed to knowing The Truth.

I do find people praying for me on the condescending side, but I suppose they're just doing what they honestly believe is the best thing for me.

Sorry to get so far off topic CM.

Yeah, like those religious freaks have a lock on The Truth right? Herein lies the rub; It seems to me in every Athiest I've known or debated, there exists a deep seated hatred for organized religion in general, and Christianity in particular. I only ask that you not confuse the practice of the individuals with the actual spiritual principles outlined within the various texts; these are good but men sometimes twist them to fit an agenda.

I guess it depends on what is being prayed for, your "conversion" or your health and or happiness. I don't mean to imply I feel your unhappy or unhealthy mind you....If the man/woman wants to pray for your "salvation" let em. Your health, let em...In the case of Charlie Mike he needs to be where he is right now. Let him be. The poster who suggests prayers for the disbeliever, let him/her pray for you. What does that hurt?? Maybe it does hurt and that's why you find it "condescending".....

But on the subject of prayer; there does seem to be an actual physical mechanism by which this can and or does work at the Quantum physical level. That is, there does seem to exist Spooky action at a distance. Which is a whole other LOOOoooong topic which I find absolUTEly fascinating:D
 
The only reason why people don't have any thing do do with God is , there pride is in the way. And with your old friend your thinking your going to lose , were not your true friends.
I had 4 so called friends i thought was close, now i Have 108 church friends that are close.
congrats
vern


ps I'll see you in heaven!
 
Does this mean that even if I somehow show your arguments to be illogical, you won't consider it? If so, then there is no need to "debate" about it as it wouldn't be a debate. It would be you denying everything even if I have a point while trying to convince me of your position. If you start with the position that your judgment is infallible, then there can be no such thing as a debate for you on this topic.

Phil, this is always a tough one to understand and explain. Faith is not based on logic. It is simply "faith." There are bits of Christianity that don't make logical sense to me. For example, if I was in Christ's shoes, I wouldn't have suffered unimaginable pain, suffering, and death(this is a historical fact by the way, all religion aside) knowing full well that the same people I suffered for would deny me, ignore me, and go through their daily life as a disgrace to my name. You can sit here all day and show me why you think Christianity is illogical, at some points I will probably agree with you. However, what you absolutely, unequivocally CANNOT prove is that there is no God. I have more evidence, whether the non-Christian believes it to be contrived or circumstantial of whatever, that leads me to believe in the existence of a God. Specifically, of the God that I worship. Basically, I wouldn't come to debate faith with me if the intent is to "convert" me. :)

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The only reason why people don't have any thing do do with God is , there pride is in the way.QUOTE]

Statements like this simply serve as one more reason for a non-Christian to hate the faith many of us hold so dear...
 
If you think that religion hasn't lead to unnecessary violence, then you're fooling yourself. Note that I'm not specifically talking about anyone in this thread since they haven't given any indication that they would behave in this manner, but I can cite as many examples of religiously motivated atrocities as I need to. 9/11 anyone? You're telling me that if I had a chance to talk a 9/11 highjacker away from his beliefs while they were still benign (at an earlier age), that I have no right to do so? Or that it would be wrong for me to do so? Do you really believe that?

WWI? WWII? The Revolution? Most wars are fought for economic reasons. The religious reasons are used as propaganda in most instances....
 
This is an especially frustrating point for a Christian. In the modern era, the Christian church has not endorsed or tolerated violence. Yet we are still compared to radicalized Islam, or even worse, the medieval Christian church that was purely a political, murderous machine at times. Yes, Christians commit crimes. They do not, regardless of how people want to twist fact, do it in the name of God or with the blessing of any church body. If they do that is a pretty clear indication that they are not acting in the name of Christ. Christian principle is relatively non-violent and certainly does not ever endorse murder for one's beliefs.

I absolutely agree that some beliefs are detrimental and should be denounced, but Christianity hardly qualifies. I mean, the Christian Scripture centers around helping the poor, accepting the socially outcast, and living what we would call a "blameless" life. I don't see how anyone can conceiveably take issue with this core of belief. Sure, I understand that Christians themselves fail and can come off and high and mighty and judgemental in their walk through life. This certainly doesn't diminish the fact that many Christians truly live out what they believe.

Even in the "Middle Ages" the Christian Crusades were as much or more so about economic considerations than religious, in that this was a play to control trade routes through the Middle East to the Far East. Religion is used to stir up the motivation to fight in the minds of the manipulated masses. These are very old and well understood techniques, If the King/Pope and your High Priests can control the dissemination of information then one can manipulate the masses into doing almost anything up to and including sacrificing their lives for your political and economic gain....
Again, I implore Kaizen 1 and others to not take the actions of individuals, or even groups within a religion as being indicative of the essence of the teachings of that religion. The Truth of a spiritual Principle can be perverted if one controls the teaching.
 
Being a true Christian is about humility. That is lacking in abundance in today's main stream churches and they use their religion to elevate themselves above what they view as inferior non-Christians.
In fact if Jesus Christ came back today and tried to be a member of 90% of these churches, acting the way he did when he was alive. He would not be welcomed into these churches that were founded in his name. That is if they did not know who he was.
I've read that and from what I've seen of churches in this area I believe it's so and there are a few that would except a human acting as he did, but they are defiantly in the minority. (and the poorest ones) It's all about image and power, there's no real interest in the poor people's suffering and being humble.
The main stream Churches I've been familiar with are attended by cocky arrogant people, that would be appalled if a homeless person dared to try to be a member there. (or even a person a lot poorer than average)
 
Enough is enough. Drop it. Take it to PM or start another thread elsewhere.
 
Being a true Christian is about humility. That is lacking in abundance in today's main stream churches and they use their religion to elevate themselves above what they view as inferior non-Christians.
In fact if Jesus Christ came back today and tried to be a member of 90% of these churches, acting the way he did when he was alive. He would not be welcomed into these churches that were founded in his name. That is if they did not know who he was.
I've read that and from what I've seen of churches in this area I believe it's so and there are a few that would except a human acting as he did, but they are defiantly in the minority. (and the poorest ones) It's all about image and power, there's no real interest in the poor people's suffering and being humble.
The main stream Churches I've been familiar with are attended by cocky arrogant people, that would be appalled if a homeless person dared to try to be a member there. (or even a person a lot poorer than average)

I agree and this is why I encourage people to look at the Spiritual Principles rather than the Churche's Principle Actors, if ya know what I mean....
 
Fantastic news Brother Mike! I will ask God to bless you in your chosen path. Welcome and Amen!!!

Remember it's about relationship... relationship... relationship my brotha'.
 
I made this choice for several reasons. I want to be with my wife and family after I eat dirt. I want to be on the winning team. Most importantly, I want to return to my creator. God gave us free will because He wants to see His creations make the right choice. I want to return to pure love one day, to a land where knives will never dull, where lockbars never wear, and we will never die.
 
I made this choice for several reasons. I want to be with my wife and family after I eat dirt. I want to be on the winning team. Most importantly, I want to return to my creator. God gave us free will because He wants to see His creations make the right choice. I want to return to pure love one day, to a land where knives will never dull, where lockbars never wear, and we will never die.

Those are certainly valid reasons for every Christian. But remember, it's about how you live your life each day while you're still here. Keep this in mind and perhaps your dirt nap will be a pleasant one!
 
Congratulations! Best decision someone can ever make.

Phillipians 1:27

"Whatever happens, conduct yourselves in a manner worthy of the gospel of Christ. Then, whether I come and see you or only hear about you in my absence, I will know that you stand firm in one spirit, contending as one man for the faith of the gospel"

You have been forgiven of your sins, now you need to conduct yourself in a manner worthy of that forgiveness! Salvation is awesome, it's the difference between heaven and hell, so stay excited about it! Congratulations once again!
 
Q.)
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how is a christian praying for you belittling?

A.)
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Originally Posted by 3_hard_boiled_eggs
they need it more than you


a.)

If you give to charity to help a person who "needs it more than you", are you belittling them?

You obviously do not understand what prayer actually is, or its purpose.
 
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