Women and Knives: Why More Women Need To Carry A Blade

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Hmmm, yes... Not stoked by 440A, though. Puma still using it makes me wonder if they have a kind of magic heat treatment or what. I have rather bad memories of "cheaper" Solingen stainless from my youth. Makes you bow before an Opinel, which all things equal, is a superior knife. You like a blue handle but you could also like their exotic wood offerings : blades are 12C27 (excellent knife steel) and the handles, well... very pretty. Prices are still very, very affordable (although double of the ordinary Opi). Might as well add a picture of my ebony N°8 to back up my statements...

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I'm the only woman I know that likes knives. Well my SO is a woman too, she likes them pretty good but not really like me. It's just as well, we don't need anymore expensive hobbies. We shoot and hunt too. Her dad has made a few knives, she has a really cool one made from a saw blade with an antler handle. It works very well for skinning.

I always smh at work when I use a real knife at work. Most of my coworkers use plastic knives to cut food at lunch.

What's even more disappointing is how many women refuse to defend themselves. It seems immature and childlike to fear tools like guns and knives. Especially the extreme point of view that thinks it's wrong to defend yourself, because you might hurt someone. :confused:

1. If my goal is to avoid having to apply lethal force, I desire the best available deterrent. Firearms are scarier than knives. Note that I'm not advocating drawing for the purpose of scaring people. There have been times (including a personal experience) where a timely presentation prevented things from going from "ability, opportunity, jeopardy" to "somebody died". In my situation, pulling a knife instead of a firearm probably results in the other guy shooting me.

2. Knives are far more dangerous to employ defensively. You pull a knife, he hits you with a bat. You pull a knife, he pulls a gun. You pull a knife and cut him, he knocks you to the ground, smacking your head on linoleum, you get stunned, he opens you up with your knife. A big issue here is that you need to be within contact distance to use it. When you don't know the other person's level of ability or preparation, that can be suicide.


Just some quick hits.

I agree. Sometimes you can't have a gun. A knife is better than nothing. I've started keeping a leek clipped to my scrubs at work in the off chance I need it. Hope I never have to use it but its a crazy world out there. I'm considering replacing the leek with a karambit. I don't have that style in my collection so it's as good a reason as any!

I absolutely agree with the last part.

I have seen everything from an 83 year old lady who signed up and attended the class by herself to 20 year olds getting ready for when they turn 21 to apply for their license.

There has been a very strong interest in concealed carry here in Illinois, as it just recently began issuing concealed carry licenses.

I do present several knife options to my classes; being prepared is key.

I also advocate carrying a source of light, and a backup for everything.

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My other addiction is headlamps. I used to like flashlights but headlamps are so much handier when you are doing something.

I don't know that you can do anything to interest more people in quality knives. Bottom line is they even if they do have mild interest, they don't wanna spend the money. It's something in my opinion people have to discover on their own. I was always around all sorts of guns and knives, I learned over the years about knives, firearms, hunting and the outdoors. I just progressed into better and better equipment. No one really lead me into it besides myself. Even though my Dad loves traditional knives and firearms, the path I took still was my own personal choice. My siblings don't have anywhere near my interest in knives as me.

I am trying to think of why knives are interesting to me and I can't. My dad always had a pocket knife he kept sharp with fine sandpaper. I never thought anything of it, I figured all dads had pocket knives.

When I got older and out of the house I would admire knives at the PX. I liked the ones with pretty handles. I saved up and finally got my own kabar with the stacked leather handle. I learned how to get it even sharper. I carried it everywhere!

When I graduated from college and got a real job I could afford to indulge more. The internet brought me in contact with knife forums, that was like the needle in my vein so to speak. LOL!!

To me they are pointy jewelry, and also a tool. Only when they are sharp though. I'm surprised at how many guys carry dull knives. I like sharpening them almost as much as I like carrying them. I have a little pile on my nightstand just for admiring and fondling.

They're just so pretty.

Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I am sorry that you feel that way about me and apologize for anything I have done to cause you think this. I have one photo of myself fixed up, that is my professional photo from my work I do. And I have a dressy picture of myself. The others of me are very plain, what I look like every day..unfixed hair, little to no make up. And then, I have a bunch of knife photos and EDC. I see nothing wrong with a woman having nice photos of herself on her profile and no reason for judgment for doing as such. However, you are entitled to your feelings. I am just new to all of this, still learning, and being myself. If that is unacceptable, I do again apologize. But, i can only be me. I hope you are having a great weekend, nonetheless, what is left of it. Peace and have a beautiful day! :thumbup::)

LOL!!!

I am unsure how you are degrading women!!

I think you should take back your apology.

If you think this forum is rough you should go to ar15.com. They hate everything.

I might as well post my glamour shot...


I thought the glamor shot was the dress one.
 
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I am trying to think of why knives are interesting to me and I can't. My dad always had a pocket knife he kept sharp with fine sandpaper. I never thought anything of it, I figured all dads had pocket knives.

When I got older and out of the house I would admire knives at the PX. I liked the ones with pretty handles. I saved up and finally got my own kabar with the stacked leather handle. I learned how to get it even sharper. I carried it everywhere!

When I graduated from college and got a real job I could afford to indulge more. The internet brought me in contact with knife forums, that was like the needle in my vein so to speak. LOL!!

To me they are pointy jewelry, and also a tool. Only when they are sharp though. I'm surprised at how many guys carry dull knives. I like sharpening them almost as much as I like carrying them. I have a little pile on my nightstand just for admiring and fondling.

They're just so pretty.

At Christmas my niece in law, 1 1/2 year old, kept bringing me her unwrapped presents, Grampa wasn't available. When she got to the point a knife was needed the adults with facial hair always have a knife. LOL
 
Isn't this Case Toothpick a beauty? It's very small, too. I absolutely LOVE it!

I don't have strong fingernails so anything that has to be opened with a nail nick is impractical. That being said, I have a couple. I also like to have my SAK champ (I think that's what it's called) in my bag. I use the scissors and magnifying glass on that more than I thought I would when I got it.

The brand I seem to favor is spyderco. I like a blade that can be opened with one hand. I also like the choice of steels they have and the nice grippy scales. There is a blade shape for everyone. The last one I purchased was a zdp stretch. It was either that or the superblue. I love the shape of that knife so much I will probably get the superblue as well. Or an endura superblue.

I have more invested in knives than in guns. I use them everyday though. Knives I mean.

I am confused about all the comments against knives as self defense. I know it's not the best choice. In fact it may be the worse choice. But you don't always have a choice.

I guess what people are referring to is the notion of carrying a knife with the feeling that it alone makes you defended and safe. I can understand that. One of my coworkers showed me a knive she got at a flea market, that she kept in her purse. She got it as a little extra protection walking to her car in the work parking lot. By the time she got it out of her purse, used two hands to open it, it wouldn't have helped her at all. At least she will have it if she needs to open a clampack or something.

I got the Ka-Bar 2-1232-1 Sheath Knife 4" in stacked leather. I don't really care all that much for it, though.it's alright, nice enough, but not one that makes me drool all over myself, so to speak :-)

OMG!!! I loved my stacked leather handled ka-bar! I lost it a long time ago. I cant' even remember what it looks like. :( I carried it everywhere and kept it shaving sharp. I used it fishing and for other outdoor activities. I think it was when I was fishing that it got lost. I wish I knew what steel it was made with, I know it got rusty if I didn't keep a little oil on it. It didn't look anything like the kabars I see today.

Oh well, I've moved on. Here is a really cool knife I have. My grandfather had it made for my uncle, when he served in WWII. The blade is made from a file, which gives the edge kind of a micro serration. Mom used to keep it in her tackle box. That's where I found it a few years after she died and I was going through the stuff in the garage. The sheath is kind of moldy and rotten and the knife was a little rusty, the copper parts of the handle were all green and icky. It cleaned up great though.

I wish this pic was better, I need to take another one. It's the middle one
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So the original point of this thread is women specifically should carry and have an interest in knives because they are good tools? ... Um, duh. That's why people in general carry knives. Don't understand the random insertion of gender into that. A knife is a useful tool regardless of XX or XY chromosomes

Because women overlook this useful tool when they should be using it. They even have an irrational fear of them and sometimes form a negative opinion of women that don't share this fear.

That's been my experience anyway. Women can be kind of clicky and sheep like. I work in a female dominated field and it's not all that great. We used to have a male supervisor in our department at least but he's moved on. Now it's nothing but women. It's terrible, strong words coming from me, a lesbo. We are all older, over 50. Whenever we get a new younger person in the department they run them off by being unwelcoming, clicky, and kind of mean.

But I digress. There are differences between men and women. Sometimes those differences are more pronounced than others. I mostly have guy friends, we just have more common interests, knives are but one. I also like hunting, riding ATV's, running my beagles, and texas hold-em poker.

I'm a 16 year old boy trapped in the body of a middle aged woman. LOL. :D

How so? When is a knife ever a great self defense option?

A long long time ago someone tried to carjack/rob me. My then husband kept a large bowie knife in the console of the van. I was in such shock that it was really happening to me that I didn't react with fear. I didn't react at all, I just sat there. When he tried to grab me I got to the bowie first and pulled it out of the sheath. He ran away. I think the fact that I did not react the way that was expected, plus the knife, had a lot to do with it. And luck.

Not all attackers have weapons or are even much larger than the victim. A knife can make all the difference in the world then.

I have another knife defense story but don't feel like telling it, I know it sounds like I'm just making up stories. Plus I was lucky. The world was a lot different then. People up to no good weren't as eager to risk getting hurt or killed like they are now. I've also defended myself by having a firearm a couple times. These incidents weren't really that uncommon at that time or place.

The bottom line is I was willing to put up some resistance and the aggressor backed down. I'm much better off now and have things like a phone, a car, and ways to keep from having to go places I don't want to go. I would not want to have to use a knife to defend myself but if that's the only tool I have at the time I'm not going to not use it. Hopefully the only think I have to defend myself against are the sharp edges of a stubborn clampack. ;)

I should have read this thread all the way through, or when it was first started. I made more posts in this thread than my entire time on this forum!!

Oh well. I've decided to make a knife purchase this week, I've been lusting over a few models. I think I'll scan some of the sponsers sites and make it happen.
 
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Worldwide, in every culture, given their own devices and a pack of crayons...

...little girls draw pictures of people, places and homes; little boys draw pictures of pointy edged things, airplanes and things blowing up.​

As with everything, there are exceptions....
 
My wife and my 17 year old daughter EDC knives daily. They both gained their fondness for knives from me. They learned to appreciate having such a useful tool at their disposal.
Heck my wife carries no less than three knives daily. She has a Victorinox Cadet (she swiped from my dresser BTW ) attached to her key ring. She has a tiny Buck lock back on her work keys and a Ka Bar tanto bladed folder she keeps in her purse or pocket.
My daughter has a Victorinox Camper she keeps in her purse or car while in school. She has been wanting a flipper so I think I am going to order her a Kershaw Scallion for her birthday.
When we go camping my wife wears my ESEE 4 on her belt. (She says it is hers though.) My daughter has an ESEE IZULA she wears as a neck knife.
As far as women liking knives being "sexy". I find women who can be self reliant attractive not "sexy". Both my wife and daughter can start a fire, shoot a firearm, build a shelter, catch a critter, well you get my point.
I am a firm believer that there may come a time where these skills could save their lives. I may not be with them or I may be injured and depend on them. It gives me peace to know that they are capable women.
 
Alright brace yourselves. I'm 'bout to tell you what I tell all the ladies lookin' for a knife for self-defense.

Get yourself a good bludgeon!

A bludgeon, with a nice no-slip grip, is way better for just swingin' around bashing wayward hands and other unwanted grasping protuberances! Nobody can stand up to a flurry of bludgeon swings, and when they get to the hospital they can at least claim they fell down the stairs!
 
Any weapon short of a firearm in well trained hands, can fail the defender if the attacker is quicker and more determined. However any weapon can be effective in some circumstances. A knife can be effective if the user isn't afraid to use it, it also is a great deterrent if the attacker has no weapon. A person only needs speed and determination to cut someone up very badly, with a sharp knife. Of course it may not work depending on circumstances, but it's a lot better than fingernails.
 
Because women overlook this useful tool when they should be using it. They even have an irrational fear of them and sometimes form a negative opinion of women that don't share this fear.

I think so to; they often overlook a tool when it is perfectly suited for their needs. The same applies to firearms. It is nice to have a choice if you ever need to use a knife for whatever reason. Bet you have a nice tool box full of hand tools Gitarmac. You probably don't use them much, but you have them and they are available if you need something.

Welcome back gitarmac. You joined at the very early days of the forum when I didn't even know internet based forums existed until I read an article in Field & Stream magazine. It was all down hill from there.... or up hill however you view it.

...but it's a lot better than fingernails.

Since I seldom have any fingers nails, I will stick to knives. But there is much to be said for this comment Jill Jackson.

Grown up men are mostly 16 year old boys trapped in a 40 or 50 something body. That is where the saying came for men and toys. He who dies with the most toys wins. Boys and their toys....
 
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Any weapon short of a firearm in well trained hands, can fail the defender if the attacker is quicker and more determined. However any weapon can be effective in some circumstances. A knife can be effective if the user isn't afraid to use it, it also is a great deterrent if the attacker has no weapon. A person only needs speed and determination to cut someone up very badly, with a sharp knife. Of course it may not work depending on circumstances, but it's a lot better than fingernails.

That's the point so many miss when laying out their dozen reasons a knife is useless for defense---in fact, "DANGEROUS!!!"--- and one should always surrender.

Simply put, a knife is better than nothing...which is most people's EDC.
 
Because women overlook this useful tool when they should be using it. They even have an irrational fear of them and sometimes form a negative opinion of women that don't share this fear.

That's been my experience anyway. Women can be kind of clicky and sheep like. I work in a female dominated field and it's not all that great. We used to have a male supervisor in our department at least but he's moved on. Now it's nothing but women. It's terrible, strong words coming from me, a lesbo. We are all older, over 50. Whenever we get a new younger person in the department they run them off by being unwelcoming, clicky, and kind of mean.

But I digress. There are differences between men and women. Sometimes those differences are more pronounced than others. I mostly have guy friends, we just have more common interests, knives are but one. I also like hunting, riding ATV's, running my beagles, and texas hold-em poker.

I'm a 16 year old boy trapped in the body of a middle aged woman. LOL. :D

This day and age just as many men "overlook this useful tool when they should be using it. They even have an irrational fear of them and sometimes form a negative opinion of [men] that don't share this fear." The statement I quoted from you can 100% be attributed to men as well. That's my whole entire point. No gender should be singled out as needing to carry a knife. Anyone that needs the tool should be carrying a knife. That simple. Gender has no part in it.
 
Worldwide, in every culture, given their own devices and a pack of crayons...

...little girls draw pictures of people, places and homes; little boys draw pictures of pointy edged things, airplanes and things blowing up.​

As with everything, there are exceptions....

Negative. If you take away all of the gender crap placed on a person from before the moment they were even born then it's clear people develop interests based on whatever they want, gender be damned. I was lucky as I practically raised myself and I'm an independent-minded human being. I came to have a passion for knives, guns, helicopters, etc because it's things I have an interest for. Don't care one bit that I have XX chromosomes. Doesn't diminish my compassion for any of those things. It's amazing isn't it?!
 
By the way, I got my stitches out the other day and the wound on my wrist where I sliced myself taking the Boker Gnome out of the Kidex sheath is healing up nicely! :-)
 
A few of my newest editions--PUMA GERMAN STEEL BONE IN LEG HOLSTER (FITS PERFECT, AS YOU CAN SEE!), PATRIOT DESERT IRONWOOD, AND DOUK DOUK FRENCH


HERE IS THE PUMA OUTSIDE OF THE LEG HOLSTER (BTW, THE LEG HOLSTER IS VERY COMFORTABLE-GREAT IF YOU ARE GOING ON A HIKE AND WANT TO CARRY YOUR FIXED BLADE ON YOUR LEG):



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The puma is nice. I actually really like that douk douk tho
 
Hello,

I would NOT dismiss using a knife for self defense if you did not have a gun on you or any other TOOL to defend yourself from the bad guy or from a loose, vicious, feral or domesticated dog.

Would a firearm be better to use in most cases? Yes! But you might not be able to have a gun on you.

Would a camp axe, hatchet or tomahawk work better than a knife if you had NO gun on you? Yes, but most people do not carry an axe, hatchet or tomahawk on them 24/7.

Heck, a baseball bat, a pitchfork, etc. would work but we can't carry them as easily as we can a knife. We CAN carry a knife on a belt, in a pocket, in your fanny pack, purse, briefcase, etc.

I think that a knife works better than pepper spray. I would go for the knife!

Your mileage may vary. No problem!

Pack it where you can get to it easily and NOT digging around in a messy purse or in a pocket full of stuff!

Pack it on your belt, in your pocket or in a fanny pack - an ordinary one or a ccw one. Now, if you have a ccw purse or a regular purse with a pocket left completely empty shy of the one knife - that may work for you too.

I do not think that carrying a knife has anything to do with your gender either.

I do not think that carrying a knife makes you any more of a woman or a man when it comes to your looks or sex appeal. IT is a tool!

Using a tool safely, a knife in this case, and having one on you means that you are using your brain and common sense. You are prepared if you need to use one and not only for self defense where a handgun can't be carried.

I think that knives can be good looking, utilitarian and beautiful just as any other tool or object can be - a handgun, a rifle, a sail boat, a power boat, a well designed house, art work, material for a dress, suit or sportswear, china, glass, stainless steel, silver, furniture, a truck, a car, etc.

To each their own - whatever trips your trigger!

I think that men and women should carry a knife and/or scissors on them. I think that girls and boys should be TAUGHT how to use a knife safely just as they are taught any other skill or how to use any tool around the house, in the woods, and in their daily lives.

You can't always ccw or oc if you are into handguns or if you no longer own or shoot them. You can't carry a lever action rifle or any other rifle on you as you can pack one or two knives ON your body or in your fanny pack, purse or briefcase.

I think that women, men and children should be encouraged to own and use knives!

Let them pick them out and choose what suits their taste. Let them be sure that the knife FITS their hands just as a good handgun or rifle or any other TOOL would fit THEIR HANDS since they are the one who will be using the knife.

Encourage people to carry a knife but don't shove it down their throats. You either like them or not!

You may come to using and paying more attention to one or more knives as a young lady/gentleman, a middle aged person or as an older person.

Having any tool on you is better than having NO tool on you no matter where you are or what is going on around you. That can be a knife or not.

There are many pretty knives in this long thread.

Thank you for sharing your pictures.

Sincerely,

Cate
 
A few of my newest editions--PUMA GERMAN STEEL BONE IN LEG HOLSTER (FITS PERFECT, AS YOU CAN SEE!), PATRIOT DESERT IRONWOOD, AND DOUK DOUK FRENCH


HERE IS THE PUMA OUTSIDE OF THE LEG HOLSTER (BTW, THE LEG HOLSTER IS VERY COMFORTABLE-GREAT IF YOU ARE GOING ON A HIKE AND WANT TO CARRY YOUR FIXED BLADE ON YOUR LEG

A leg holster is terrible for hiking. It catches on everything. So are spike heels, yoga pants, and an exposed backside.

All you seem to be implying is that the most important thing a woman needs to do when enjoying the outdoors is look sexy. That's not true...they need to do the cooking and cleaning too, so the men can have time to drink more beer.
 
Bit of advice. YMMV. I mean, for Scagel's sakes...after all the claims that have been made that you have no credibilty, you giving advice about outdoor gear that appears in a picture of you twerking does nothing to dispel those claims. :thumbup:
 
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