in response to several conversations i didn't want to have, and a general trend of people being, shall we say "zero tolerance"...
i bring you this official message. pay heed.
iirc, spark is on record as saying that this here forum is not PG13. we are allowed to have a certain amount of discretion in our language, as long as we observed a few criteria.
generally, thou shalt not overtly insult another member, or their protected dogma as provided by general culture and law of the USA (gender, race, language, creed, etc, etc, etc)
a little profanity is iirc, not unwarranted, but should not be taken to extremes either. show some common sense.
reminders:
forum rule #1 '''
This site's been open since late 1998, so we've seen quite a range of behaviors here... but by and large our membership has been self policing and well behaved. We'd like to keep it that way, as such, here are some helpful guidelines on how you should act while you are here. First & foremost, remember the golden rule: Do unto others as you would have done unto yourself, in other words, BE NICE. When you are polite to people, they will tend to be polite back to you. '''
and here the appropriate section that makes me post today:
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Inappropriate Language
Seriously, I can't believe I have to explain this, but here goes:
Some of the forums on BFC have few or no limits. You can talk about whatever you want, however you want, as long as it doesn't break the other rules.
Most of the forums aren't this way - So don't talk about how you did something disgusting to someone, somehow, in a forum that isn't set up for that.
IF YOU DON'T KNOW HOW TO TALK IN A FORUM, LURK BEFORE POSTING
This infraction can be issued as a warning. It lasts for 10 days. It counts as 1 point towards your total.'''
basically that means... yeah. don't be stupid, but this isn't church either, a few shits go a long way. don't like something? mention it to a mod. member should not be policing. *esp* in the Snark forums.
Rule #2 of the forum, 'RESPECT THE MODERATOR STAFF.' pretty much that. if you call a mod out, expect an answer.
Esp here:
http://www.bladeforums.com/forums/faq.php?faq=faq_rules
while i'm at it, a major forum rule:
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Don't do something illegal, or post about illegal activities.
That means no threads about importing switchblades & balisongs to Canada, buying ballistic knives, or similar. No posting of warez, kiddie porn, or CC fraud.'''
a few of y'all skirt this one. don't post thing about your habits, hunting out of season, boasts (or actual admissions of guilt), violence, like that. we don't need it.
this is spark's house party. obey his rules. this is Ethan's mini-party. we have rules. Ethan abides. so should you.
this Sub-Forum has rules. so many of you break them

it's funny, because obviously you never read them. that's okay. kinda. still, it's indicative of those who read them. most violated rule?: ' Q: Which Becker should I buy first? ' lol
http://www.bladeforums.com/forums/s...ead-this-first-!!!-FREQUENTLY-Asked-Questions