Just wanted to share an experience I just had with a buyer to get some feedback on how I handled it and if I'm overreacting or out of line.
Made a deal with BUYER for a fairly low-priced item I had listed on the exchange ($50). I had listed the price as "net," meaning that if he chose to pay with Paypal it would be his responsibility to cover the fee. A pretty standard practice, imho - I know it's a fair price for the item and I'm happy to accept other, fee-free payments (google wallet, send me cash in the mail if you insist, whatever).
BUYER pays, and when I notice he didn't account for the fee I send him a friendly message asking him to cover it before I ship out the item. I assume it was an honest mistake, no big deal. And it's not like I'm losing lots of money here - we're talking $1.75. To me it's more of a moral thing: I was clear about the terms of the deal up front, and he hasn't yet fulfilled his side of the bargain.
So he writes back saying he was confused about what "net" means, that I should have been more explicit about how much he needed to pay, that it's ridiculous of me to ask for such a small sum, etc. So I give him the benefit of the doubt, and decide to forget about the petty handful of quarters he owes me and just ship him the item.
Next day, after I ship the thing out I update the tracking number in Paypal. But I just can't shake this bad feeling I have about BUYER. So I check through his post history, and find - among numerous petty complaints about deals where he didn't get exactly what he wanted - a long thread he started complaining about sellers who factor Paypal fees into their asking price.
So he knew what he was doing. He was just feigning confusion to get his way, saving himself a couple bucks while still enjoying Paypal's buyer protection. I write BUYER a message telling him that if he doesn't send me the $1.75 he weaseled out of paying I'd leave negative feedback.
SO: who's the crazy one? Me for making such a stink over such a tiny sum, or him for trying to skirt around the terms of a deal he disagreed with?