I had a lot of fights in middle school until I got to high school.. I got sent to the office like 2nd day of freshman year for fighting and the counselor looked in my file and said, football player? go back to class.. I though hop damn, I am golden.. After school at practice, after I had thrown up the 2nd time from running stairs, 100 yard helicotpr sprints, and fence lines, the coach asked if I was going to get in trouble for petty BS stuff again.. No sir.. lol.
In my 20's I was a bouncer at a couple places, one of them was pretty rough and I got it all out of my system.. about the only way to make me fight these days is mess with my wife or son.. nothing else really worth it.
I am with you WW, i remember the utter shock and disbelief the first time I heard of a guy pulling a bat and beating another guy up after school, that just did not happen... you passed out some lumps, took a few for yourself and then called it a day.. none of this revenge crap.. pull a gun or knife.. hunt someone down and shoot them.. get your buddies to jump them, that was all just cowardly BS.. now it is the norm.
One of my coworkers has a 9 year old daughter, she is pretty small for her age. Some boy at her school started bullying her on a friday, she came home told her dad, he called the school and they said they would handle it on monday... Monday rolls around and the kid starts on her again, he ends up pushing her to the ground and in the process breaks her femur.. she had to have surgery and the parents are denying responsibility.. you can't do anything to a school in Texas.. he is out $200K from doctor bills.. what are we supposed to teach our kids these days.. they stand up for themselves and they get jumped or ambushed, you teach them to turn the other cheek and they get run over...