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Punches to the head don't really seem to lay people out either, for that matter, unless it's a hook to the jaw, which works because it torques the neck, not because of any real damage to the head. If I'm in a real fight, as opposed to the MMA stuff I've done, why not go straight to the source? But a good shot to anywhere at the bottom of the ribcage will usually put virtually anyone on the ground (and possibly in the hospital, depending on where you land the hit). Even the big tough guys with massive abs to protect their stomachs don't tend to have much cushion on the sides. Joints, biceps, quads, calves, etc, are all good targets too. I've won several matches against guys that outweighed me by 50 pounds because I got them in the arms and legs so much they either couldn't hit back, or couldn't stand.
I can understand that your daughter doesn't like it. I wouldn't be surprised if mine don't either. But they're still going to have to learn. I'd rather they spend time doing something that they don't like and know how to defend themselves than the alternative. And I'd really rather have someone who DOESN'T like to fight learn how than someone who does. Don't want them ending up BEING bullies, ya know? If they like it, then learning the mental discipline and self-control is even more important.
i apparently learned early on to use elbows and open hand strikes. "farm boy style"... kids tended to not bother after a while. a few idiots tried the gang up on me trick. that's when you fight dirty. they never did that again.
my dad used to try and assault me now and again in a drunk mood. or a mean uncle when drunk drunk. "farm boy" was big enough to take it, but by around 15-16 i had enough, and kick some adult ass, and it stopped.
after that, smooth sailing for many years, and no need to fight.
then one day, this asshat who "had some training" decided that he need to break my knees and do that rib and kidney thing. it went from shoving and joshing to "serious injury moment"... that just pisses me off

fighting (for sport, entertainment, etc) is for losers imho, but if you have to, FINISHING MOVE...
