I guess I still haven't made myself clear.... I would like to see
all the facts, all the information posted here. If after posting the facts, Mr. Fubar agreed to whatever the deal was and then he did whatever he did, you then go on to say, Mr. Fubar is a *#^%@$%# -- that's not adding any information, is it?
Just post the facts and we can all see Mr. Fubar is a *#^%@$%# ... you don't need to tell us what to think, we can think for ourselves ... we're not brain-dead idiots ... most of us....
This website has a policy against personal attacks. In general calling Mr. Fubar a *#^%@$%# is likely to lead to him calling you a @!*&^!@ and the thread degenerates from there, and the facts tend to get obscured with personal observations and ad hominem arguments and at best it doesn't help bring out the truth at all ... at worst buries the truth in a lot of garbage that is not easy to sort through to find the tiny kernel of useful information.
Occasionally a question of whether a practice is ethical or not comes up, and then we can discuss that, but most of the time we all agree on principles and the only question is what did Mr. Fubar do? If you explain how someone swindled you what does it accomplish to go on and say he is a swindler, he is dishonorable, he is unethical, etc. etc. etc? Give us a little credit ... we are capable of seeing for ourselves that a person who swindled you is a swindler! We don't need to be told he's dishonorable, unethical, any of that, just tell us what he did and we can all see what a swindling dishonorable unethical *#^%@$%# he is.
I don't want to censor anybody except as a last resort ... I'd rather jawbone; I hope that's all that's needed. Naturally people are likely to be upset when they post on this forum and feel like venting all their feelings, and we can give people a little slack about that, but this forum is really supposed to be about facts, not feelings.
-Cougar :{)