Uh ehmm. hello group.... It was just pointed out in a private message that it appears I am "sticking up" for this Ummmmmmm... unsavory individual. That couldn't be farther from the truth! I was simply relating to the Forum community as truthfully as I could, the experience I had with Cyndie Thom***. I always try to look at things from a positive angle and I was simply sharing my experience. Each of us can make our own conclusions as to what type of character and honesty the principles in this unfortunate melodrama have. I hate it that jbravo,Tamishigiri and jadis have gotten burned and feel a lot of empathy for them. I thought I was being a team player. In viewing the posts in this and other forum discusions (Busse, BG&U et al), all to often a "pack mentality" prevails. I do find that many of those not "DIRECTLY" involved in these many of these sour dealings sometimes feel the necessity to participate in overt name calling and sniping without being directly involved in the deal. Cool heads and level judgement are forgotten and as with the recent Busse forum debacle things are said quickly and, regreted afterwards.
Soon everyone directly involved are "Kissee Kisseee all made up" and everyone acts a little sheepish because they choose sides and voiced their rather LOUD opinions! As with other forms of interaction, I vote with my money and my feet. I refuse to knowingly do business with shisters, swindlers, and thiefs.... That's why I check daily the GB&U forum. I can't and do not know everyone personally on this forum. That's why I have found the GB&U invaluable. I was only reciprocating in this incedence.
I was asked if I would "do business again with this person", and my reply was Helllllllllo NO. At least not until they have made amends and to everyones satisfaction, and corrected their previous deals. The outcome of my experience was OK dealing with "Cyndie" or whomever it was I had dealt with. I feel now I should have simply kept quite (as I have since my initialy joining the forums) and not shared my experience. I thought I "might" save someone the hassels of the jadis,Tamishigiri and jbravo by alerting others to the identity of the "ghost lurker".
Hmmmmmm..... Maybe, just maybe, I need to lurk a little more and see how people interact here on the forums. I definitly have a lot to learn and should simply keep my nose out of things that don't directly concern me!
I thought I was getting comfortable with the envoirnment, but it appears I may have a lot yet to learn! Sorry for any confusion folks!
"Back into the darkenss, wince I came!"
[This message has been edited by Maxon (edited 05-06-2000).]