Striderco, that part of the thread was put to rest a long time ago. Since it seems people are on the right track, why don't we just let this thread cool down now. When Bladechick gets the knife back, she can let everyone know, the thread can be closed, and both of you can move on to bigger and better things.
Here are my final thoughts on this thread....a retrospective if you will....and I'm getting in bed so my mind isn't working quite right. So let's call this a retrospective ramble...
Once or Twice a month we see threads like this, and they are very entertaining. They become threads of this magnitude for 4 reasons.
1) the person starting the thread is brand new, has a temper, and tries to screw a BF member who has been here a while. The person who starts the post usually gets burned bad and we don't see him/her back in GBU
2) In this case, even if theBrain was wronged, the knife was such an insignificant knife that a thread should not have been started. You surely weren't planning on getting it as an investment....it's a cheap POS. so that means you were going to use it....so who cares if it has scratches because you're going to scratch it even more. You started a thread about a subject that shouldn't be discussed, and it blew up in the brain's face, and to a lesser extent, BladeChick's face. But BC learned from her mistake and I guaranty you that it will not happen in anymore of her trades. Bottom line....this thread should not have begun on GBU. It's the lesser of 2 evils....1) Make a stink about getting a cheap knife you were going to use anyway and ruining your rep on BF v. 2) realizing it's not worth it, suck up your pride and use the damn cheapass knife and scratch it even more. The latter my friend, is the lesser of the 2 evils.
3) You have a legitimate thread that contains a true wrong. One or both parties don't take ownership of the wrong. That my friends, is when the crowd comes into play. They both act like fools, get caught in lies, try to hurt the other's reputation, call them names, tell them "I'm in the Right" and "You're in the Wrong". These people are just asking to be beat down by everyone who watches this forum. And that's why threads don't get closed. You have to keep the gates of the arena open so the gladiators can keep fighting and the crowd can keep cheering them on.
4) You have the elder BF member who wants to teach someone a lesson. The person is new and trying t learn how things work on here. You go after them, even after they are trying to fix things. Like a panther in a corner, you pounce. You get a couple posts in where you say some good thinks and make some good points. SO WHAT SHOULD YOU DO???? STOP WHILE YOU ARE AHEAD. But you don't do that....YOU KEEP GOING AND GOING AND GOING.....your ego and pride has now taken hold, giving way to reason and reality. You have the newbie in your sights and you jump on him/her relentlessly. After that, everyone thinks your an ass and doesn't want anything to do with you.
The End