Bimmer1
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After reading all the posts out here over and over I am convinced that you will not be happy until you receive an apology from Mr. Emerson that basically says.......
"Dear Lou,
We had a deal and I did not live up to my end of the bargain as discussed. I was still in the learning process of doing business and I failed you. It was not my intention to fail you....but I did. I WAS WRONG IN THIS SITUATION AND YOU WERE RIGHT. You feel that I did not respect you as a customer and I can see how you might feel this way given the situation.
Over the years I have learned that doing business in the public arena is a give and take process but in the end if I am going to survive then I have to give more to my customers than I take. If I take from my customers then I have to give them what they expect in return within reason and to the best of my ability. In our case that did not happen and for that I am truly sorry that you were wronged and that I did not do my personal best as a knifemaker and business owner to deliver what you expected.
You were given a refund but enclosed is a check for $475 additional dollars. Hopefully that will somehow ease your pain of feeling disrespected as one of my customers."
Now..........that may never come. Maybe there is more to this story than we all know because there is always two sides to every story. Sometimes it is simply a matter of perspective. I'm sure all knifemakers live and learn. They make mistakes and hopefully learn from them. Many of us admire what Mr. Emerson has done in knifemaking but he is not GOD. I'm sure he makes mistakes. He is a man just like you and I. How many mistakes have we made in our professional lives, home lives, families, etc? Some of us can sit down and draft a sincere apology and discuss our mistakes and many men just cannot bring themselves to do such a thing. Maybe his apology does not seem sincere but at the same time if he truly wronged you then inside he knows the truth and feels remorse over your transaction even if his apology is not sprinkled with sugar and little tiny tasty flowers. If it all went down like you say it did then let him live with what was done on his end. You have to live with what you have done and said on your end. The past is the past and hopefully everyone learned something valuable that will prevent them from repeating the same mistakes in the future. That's life. That's reality.
"Dear Lou,
We had a deal and I did not live up to my end of the bargain as discussed. I was still in the learning process of doing business and I failed you. It was not my intention to fail you....but I did. I WAS WRONG IN THIS SITUATION AND YOU WERE RIGHT. You feel that I did not respect you as a customer and I can see how you might feel this way given the situation.
Over the years I have learned that doing business in the public arena is a give and take process but in the end if I am going to survive then I have to give more to my customers than I take. If I take from my customers then I have to give them what they expect in return within reason and to the best of my ability. In our case that did not happen and for that I am truly sorry that you were wronged and that I did not do my personal best as a knifemaker and business owner to deliver what you expected.
You were given a refund but enclosed is a check for $475 additional dollars. Hopefully that will somehow ease your pain of feeling disrespected as one of my customers."
Now..........that may never come. Maybe there is more to this story than we all know because there is always two sides to every story. Sometimes it is simply a matter of perspective. I'm sure all knifemakers live and learn. They make mistakes and hopefully learn from them. Many of us admire what Mr. Emerson has done in knifemaking but he is not GOD. I'm sure he makes mistakes. He is a man just like you and I. How many mistakes have we made in our professional lives, home lives, families, etc? Some of us can sit down and draft a sincere apology and discuss our mistakes and many men just cannot bring themselves to do such a thing. Maybe his apology does not seem sincere but at the same time if he truly wronged you then inside he knows the truth and feels remorse over your transaction even if his apology is not sprinkled with sugar and little tiny tasty flowers. If it all went down like you say it did then let him live with what was done on his end. You have to live with what you have done and said on your end. The past is the past and hopefully everyone learned something valuable that will prevent them from repeating the same mistakes in the future. That's life. That's reality.