the knife obviously failed, so like you said, it must have been a lemon, or at least I'd like to believe so, but I guess Spyderco will take care of that for you
I've seen delica's used way much harder than what you said, with no lock failure, and I mean hard in the really hard way
and yes, what you used it for is a normal use for a knife, especially for a hard use folder like that, I use knives all the time for poking holes, cutting plastic bottles, and whatever I need to do and not be considered an abuse
Don't get me wrong, I know what is abuse and what is not, but after all they are tools, and are made for cutting lots of stuff, doing different things, not just for slicing paper, shaving wood sticks or buttering bread ...
as for the cut, sorry about that, and I must say, I am old fashion too, regarding stitches and doctors for little accidental cuts

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anyway, you made your point, anything can fail, even hard use folders, so it's good to work with maximum care and attention, regardless of the solid looks of your knife, be it folder or fixed
Cheers