Neil has e-mailed me. He is a great guy, and I just replied back to him.
I have no problem with things like this being discussed in the open. I agree with the people who believe the need for this discussion is present. I simply beleive all parties should be given a chance to tell their story/and or make ammends for the situation BEFORE this is brought up. In this situation, things most likely would not have changed. However, the other member in question has the right to be provided the oppertunity to work it out.
Now, according to Neil, Paul has not been answering e-mails from him for a long period of time. Did Neil try and call? I'm not sure, it was never mentioned. If Paul refuses to make contact with Neil, then yes, I have no problem with this being aired. I do, however, believe this was not a good choice of threads, no matter who the parties involved are. If you want this to get exposure, I would suggest moving it to GBU or even General with an appropriate thread title to get attention of all who see it.
As I mentioned, Neil is a man of high class, in both his personal character and work as a knife maker. I simply had a slight gripe with the way it was handled. In retrospect, maybe I should have been the one to take my grip to private conversation. I was not defending any one of the parties involved with my previous posts. Only expressing my displeasure with the manner in which the very ligitiment gripe was handled.
JR