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The "answers" you'll get are going to be exactly what they need to be to suck you in dude. It's a trap! You'll be lucky if you aren't robbed blind by the pimp either by force at "her place" or the pimp just ransacking your place since he knows you'll be gone all night. Maybe you need to watch more movies. This plot line has been played out a million times in a million different ways. It only ended up a happy ending that one time, but I'm willing to bet that this chick is NOT Julia Roberts! Please get out of your fantasy head space and look at the big picture. At least take heed of the old saying, if it's too good to be true it probably isn't!
 
Oh yah, being the holiday season it would have been super easy for her to get a real job. Like seriously, I live in the same state as you dude I KNOW FOR 100% FACT that there are metric truckloads of available jobs if she chose, but she is intentionally choosing to be an "escort". Why? She said she didn't want to right? Walmart is hiring. Target is hiring. Starbucks is hiring. Attractive? Waitresses at even semi-decent places can make bank with a nice smile (among other assets). Zero reason to be on that path dude.
 
...dude. DUDE. HER STORY IS CHANGING RIGHT IN THIS PARAGRAPH!!!!

You paid her for sex, now time to move on!! She doesn't care about you, she doesn't care about you, SHE DOESN'T CARE ABOUT YOU.

Know what, when this goes bad, I want you to remember back to this thread and think about how if you had just walked away, none of what's coming would have happened.

Think about how your money could be making your own life better, or working for you to get yourself ready for the next stage. Paying a trashbag whore's rent is NOT making your money work for you.
This might be his one shot at true love though. He has to see where it leads, or he will be questioning "what if?" for the rest of his life!
 
OP, did you check her vouches, or are you guys operating on karma?

Not quite the same, but about 25 years ago a guy I knew got caught up with a drug addict with a kid. He also thought he could fix everything...instead it cost him his apartment and his job. Not sure what happened after that.
 
ONEBIGBOWIE ONEBIGBOWIE

She’s gonna have you trapped like a fart in an elevator.

Venmo? Yeah, she doesn’t have a card or bank account because she can’t afford to have her name tied and tracked by anyone of authority.

And I gotta ask you...
Do you kiss this girl? How does it taste? LOL

And how wrong I was in always esteeming you as a White Knight to such damsels in distress :P
 
Has the OP tried to post in some other community's public forum perhaps with more sympathetic members toward his cause and this poor girl's plight? Knife folks are such meanies who apparently don't know / care much about the chivalrous concerns of a true captain-fix-a-ho.
 
Well apparently I'm an idiot for wanting to help someone. I do know about scams and stuff. She has asked for money for rent. I'm not giving her anything until I figure out where she stands. I don't want to be a sucker but I also don't want to just leave her if she's on the level. She wants me to spend the night with her tomorrow. I'm going to get some answers. The thing that will tip me off is how she reacts to the money situation. I don't have the income for 2 people and car payments. I am alright a little suspicious. Earlier today she texted me saying she needed $145 for rent. I told her I only have $20. She says 20 could do it, she already has $100. She said something about a venmo card, I looked it up, I guess it's connected to PayPal. Regardless of who she is, do you all think a person that poor could have a card? It's funny, she mentioned the police offered her an escort to get her stuff and I guess she didn't take it. I will proceed with caution
......... I don't think you are an idiot for wanting to help but I think you ARE an idiot coming onto a knife forum asking for advice (albeit on that attracts a pretty broad and knowledgeable crowd) and then promptly ignoring or downplaying all the red flags and warning flares that EVERYONE has given you. You are already getting asked for $s (beyond any associated to the transactional nature of your relationship with this girl) and he story even as relayed by you to us is so full of glaring holes (there is a joke there but I am leaving it alone) that it may as well be Swiss Cheese !!! She is MUCH MUCH more street/world wise than you, she picked up on that during your first awkward business transaction. She is looking at you as a walking talking ATM now, one which she will probably have to put LESS effort into extracting $s from that the ten others that booked an hour with her. When you sleep over....she will probably want to just cuddle. You are NOT personally equipped to manage this situation, you are too young both in age and maturity and, if I am being frank, you have had not nearly enough kicks in the head to see this for what it is. Take off the rose coloured glasses, loose and block her number and, if you must, find yourself a hooker who simply wants to do business with you, at least then the lines are clear.

On Hookers, Prostitutes and Escorts.... in the day there were perceived differences and Escorts were seen more as providing the "Girlfriend Experience" but now the lines are are pretty much non-existent, they just like being called "Escorts" now as it has a less of a stigma.
 
......... I don't think you are an idiot for wanting to help but I think you ARE an idiot coming onto a knife forum asking for advice (albeit on that attracts a pretty broad and knowledgeable crowd) and then promptly ignoring or downplaying all the red flags and warning flares that EVERYONE has given you. You are already getting asked for $s (beyond any associated to the transactional nature of your relationship with this girl) and he story even as relayed by you to us is so full of glaring holes (there is a joke there but I am leaving it alone) that it may as well be Swiss Cheese !!! She is MUCH MUCH more street/world wise than you, she picked up on that during your first awkward business transaction. She is looking at you as a walking talking ATM now, one which she will probably have to put LESS effort into extracting $s from that the ten others that booked an hour with her. When you sleep over....she will probably want to just cuddle. You are NOT personally equipped to manage this situation, you are too young both in age and maturity and, if I am being frank, you have had not nearly enough kicks in the head to see this for what it is. Take off the rose coloured glasses, loose and block her number and, if you must, find yourself a hooker who simply wants to do business with you, at least then the lines are clear.

On Hookers, Prostitutes and Escorts.... in the day there were perceived differences and Escorts were seen more as providing the "Girlfriend Experience" but now the lines are are pretty much non-existent, they just like being called "Escorts" now as it has a less of a stigma.

OP, Andy here? Dude isn't even from the US, this should be a signal of how universal the advice we're giving you is, and how ubiquitous this situation is. This is literally a worldwide tale. RUN AWAY.
 
You figure you can save her

You sell your color TV
That keeps her off the streets a whole day
You hawk your typewriter for one jolt
Then your shotgun, your watch
A week later you say, listen I'm a little short
But she says, no scratch, no snatch
You say, look, it is better to give
But she says, beat off, creep

One night they spot you on the street in your skivvies
Trying to sell your shoes
You tell them who you are
But they nail you
Then she happens by
And she says, Christ you look f*cked
She says, hang tough

But you don't say anything
You just think, what a bum rap for a nice sensitive guy like me
 
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Oh come on guys! She was mishandled by the Ex-BF which means she must be in a lot of physical & emotional pain. I have never seen such a bunch of apathetic gathering of savages in one place!

At least she has not asked the OP to try to score some opioid based medication (for the pain & suffering, of course!) off of the around-the-corner and in-car-trunk-type-pharmacists; well not yet anyway!
 
Lemme lay this out in a way you can understand. I drove a cab part time to put myself through school. Mostly nights and weekend nights. 99.99999% of call girls are on drugs. Period. I don't care what they do along those lines, strippers, escorts, hookers, cam girls, whatever- they are on drugs. You get into a "relationship" with this chick you're gonna lose your a**. Period. You're gonna become one of what is likely more than a few "sugar daddies" with less and less sugar (sex) and more and more daddy (you in the form of cash payouts) as this progresses.
 
Lemme lay this out in a way you can understand. I drove a cab part time to put myself through school. Mostly nights and weekend nights. 99.99999% of call girls are on drugs. Period. I don't care what they do along those lines, strippers, escorts, hookers, cam girls, whatever- they are on drugs. You get into a "relationship" with this chick you're gonna lose your a**. Period. You're gonna become one of what is likely more than a few "sugar daddies" with less and less sugar (sex) and more and more daddy (you in the form of cash payouts) as this progresses.

Sir, let's use some language which purveys etiquette when referring to sugar babies and sugar daddies! I have no idea as to why a 20 YO would want to be an SD, but let's address him as the benefactor. The distressed young lady shall be the beneficiary :D
 
How many other Johns does she have on the hook.
You seem to be a nice guy but one that can be taken advantage of.
There are so many red flags in this story. My advice.... dont get involved in other peoples
relationships...what goes on between her and her guy is their business.
 
Well I'm done with her. Some shit happened tonight and I don't want to go into details but basically I gave her $240 for her rent (yes I know I'm a dumbass for that.) And she basically made up a bullshit story and backed out doing anything. Lesson learned. I think I kinda knew she was bad from the beginning, I was just really hopeful to finally get a girlfriend (never had one) that I tried to deny it to myself. I don't know if that makes sense to anyone. I also learned not to go to the internet for advice on stuff like this. It just doesn't work good. Nobody on here knows me personally and between people assuming things about me and guys who basically just calling me a dumbass it's not a good idea. I'm not mad or even surprised about the responses I got. That's the internet for you. I am kinda surprised how many people got in on this.
 
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The "ex" showed up before he finished his post! :eek:

Well I'm done with her. Some ---- happened tonight and I don't want to go into details but basically I gave her $240 for her rent (yes I know I'm a dumb--- for that.) And she basically made up a bull---- story and backed out doing anything. Lesson learned. I think I kinda knew she
 
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