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I look at post after post on this same topic, and all I see are paths that forever turn around and dive back into the same darkened path.
But I believe there is another way, another path that the people in this story could take to free themselves for endless bickerings and bitterness.
To forgive.
To seek to do good to the very ones who now are our targets and we theirs...
To turn the other cheak to past mistakes and hurts.
To be known as a peacemaker, and no longer as just one voice in the din of the mob.
To drop the rocks...
"Forgive" ... "he learned his lesson" ... "he made some mistakes!" ... "He took his lumps!" ... "he paid his price"
Dude, no offense but in order to forgive it actually requires someone owning up to having done wrong. That doesn't seem like it's so, or would you say him telling these tales until I bothered to document how long it was going on for is a sign of acknowledgement? I'm not calling for any judgement, so I can't grant any forgiveness either. That's something the individual has to do. I'm just saying "here is the behavior, draw your own conclusions."
Where's all the talk of forgiveness for Lynn Thompson? Or Maxpedition? Or me? I don't see any. I just see "oh, so and so is a bad person, rawr boycott!"
Again, the hypocrisy is amazing.