The use of the feedback system on the forum is positive biased. At the moment you do have a completed deal, but if he returns your money it is considered no deal, regardless(there are exceptions)of other factors, and no feedback should be given by either side. It is how they do it-I didn't make the rules. They don't like to correct our feedback errors and will give out infractions. I know it doesn't make sense some times, but they are trying to avoid some misuse of the system. My guess is that it really won't matter for you, but I would have waited and used all avenues to resolve then given negative feedback as needed.