My Son died this mornng.

zzyzzogeton said:
So sorry for your loss.

Check with the local PD (or the Sheriff's Office, if it's a rural house) for an escort while retrieving your son's things. It's amazing how cooperative folks get when you show up with the LEOs.
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This is the LAST thing your family needs at this time.
Don't say another word to that POS and like zz says, bring a police escort.
Not sure what he is thinking, but it doesn't matter. Go get your son's belongings brother.
Joe
 
Sorry for your loss. Nobody should have to lose a child. Just know he is in a better place

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I'm very sorry for your loss. I know the helpless feeling of watching a loved one spiral into addiction. I'm sorry that his illness took him.
 
Smoke and prayers brother, know that you tried all you could do.
 
Oh, I am sorry. I have two sons and have some small idea of how awful that must be for you. God bless you and help you.
Don aka sonnydaze
 
Methuselah said:
I'm sorry for your loss sir. And it is a loss. My father could do nothing to help my alcoholism he prayed and prayed for many years but I Disappeared for many years dozens in fact. Reading this story tonight helps me to stay sober one more day and I am sober these days. So I take strength in what you have shared today I thank you both.

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oof. the news is like a punch in the gut. i'm so sorry BFS. i cannot grieve like you, but you will not grieve alone. thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. and, i am sorry that the roommate is making a tough time that much harder. shaking head.

much love to you from VT.

cheers.

-todd
 
I am sorry for your loss, my deepest condolences to you and your family.
 
I cant even begin to imagine what your family has gone through , and is going through .
I'm not really a religious type of guy , but when I hear things like this I say a silent prayer for all involved .

Ken
 
They say there is nothing harder than burying your child. I am sorry. He no longer hurts.
 
The waves of emotions come and go like the tide. My mind is still foggy and dream like. Final plans are being made. I can't bring myself to look at the body. My sister had to identify at the funeral home. I don't want that picture in my memory. I just can't.

The outpouring of support here comforts my heart and soul. I just had my best cry reading y'alls words of encouragement. Thank you guys and gals from the bottom of my heart. You make this a special place for me to be.
 
BFS - so sorry to hear this, I truly can't imagine what this must be like. we're praying for you & your family, and for a peaceful outcome regarding the retrieval of your son's belongings.

~Chris
 
BFS said:
He was 35 and died from a seizure. He's been battling alcoholism for years now. We've tried so hard over the years to get him help, but he just wouldn't lift a finger to improve his lot. Couldn't even be bothered to attend one AA meeting.

Finally got him to go to an emergency room this past Monday to be evaluated to get into a detox facility. They admitted him to the hospital with a .40 BAC. He walked out a few hours later and disappeared for two days. I felt that would be his last chance at saving his life and unfortunately, I was right.

We knew that time was closing in on him and tried to prepare for that inevitable phone call. It came at 1:30 this morning.

Thanks to the forum for letting me have this little relief. I'm so numb. RIP Bryan. I love you.
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just celebrated 19 years of sobriety and I have seen the pain alcoholics inflict on their families. I am so sorry for you.
 
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