Trade deal gone bad...opinions requested.

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Hi Scott,

I'm very disappointed you would resort to lying or deceiving in order to make yourself look better. Even still I don't believe you're doing a good job at it. I have been completely up front and honest in all of my statements. As I said I don't believe you're a scammer, perhaps a stickler of sorts with a poor moral compass. I will address each inconsistency with the truth in your recent post in this thread. I said up front in my post above I gave you the benefit of the doubt in saying our definitions of condition may differ and I figured perhaps I didn't look at the pictures good enough. However after you declined coming to a reasonable resolution that I offered I started doing some digging and that's when I found the photos you'd texted me were from 6 months ago. So yes at first I didn't believe you did anything wrong and so I told you as such, but after discovering the images were from a much more previous date my opinion on that changed. Still the fact remains regardless of condition or if the knife was or was not misrepresented I let you know as soon as I could(within minutes of receiving the knives) that I was unhappy with the deal and you had absolutely no intention of undoing the deal which based on how I feel and it seems others on this forum as well that if both parties are unhappy the deal should be undone, simple as that. Again were you not given that same courtesy by being the first receiver of goods?

"First of all this deal wasn't even done on BF, true i contacted him about two weeks ago about a possible trade but was turned down, so last week thur. i was perusing ebay auctions and came across a knife that had a "or best offer" and had a phone number
listed so i texted him about a trade for a different knife of mine and the first thing he asks me is "how did you get my number?" and i told him Ebay so at the time i had no idea i was talking to the same Guy/Knife."


Our first correspondence was through this forum, even you acknowledge that as the truth. You also used your feedback from this forum in order to have me send my knife first, and I obliged because in comparison you have much more feedback and activity here than I do. I also had my phone number listed in the post as well so regardless of weather you got in contact with me the second time via my eBay ad you still used your reputation on this forum to make the deal happen, and I was contacted by you twice regarding this knife here, I still have the PMs to prove this. Therefore to say my feedback should not be allowed everyone would agree is a ridiculous statement. The fact that you would even try to pull that out proves to me that you are aware your actions are of a nefarious nature.

"I answered all his Questions and sent pics upon request and even sent CURRENT video's of both knives unrequested, the pics i sent him were when i purchased the knife and it is in the same condition as when the pics were taken as it has been in a pelican case
since i bought it and would have sent even more if requested.

He was informed of the carry marks and his response to me was "don't worry i'm not crazy picky", "


You did answer all of my questions, and you sent me pictures and a video of the knives. However as many know a text message video is very low resolution and was requested in order to see the action of the knife and does not represent the condition that is what pictures are for. I received the pictures thinking they were current and the knife was described as "in the same condition at the pictures" and yes you did indicate small wear marks, but I was judging by the pictures I could not see much wear so I assumed the marks were so small and insignificant that they couldn't even be picked up in a photo that is why I responded "don't worry I'm not crazy picky" because if there were wear marks I couldn't see them in the photos and therefore I would have to be "crazy picky" to be upset about marks that don't show up in photos. Of course I later found out that these photos were in fact from 6 months ago and perhaps that's why the photos above clearly differ when you compare the photos you sent me to the ones I took just after receiving the knife. I think everyone would agree the knives appear to be in much different condition photo to photo and the lighting and quality of the images are appear to be the same(mine were taken in my kitchen with my iphone).

"When he received my knives his first text to me was " not really digging either one in person the AVH is scuffed, it doesn't flip as good as one i had earlier, the finish is slippery and the maker didn't finish it enough, so i'll just sell them, then before i could reply he text's me that he doesn't even care about the knife and if i give him 1200.00 he will ship my knives back and i said i don't have 1200.00 that's why i traded."

This is an outright and blatant deception here Scott and you know it. Upon receiving the knives I immediately contacted you stating I was unhappy with the trade after seeing the knives in person and my first and initial offer was to undo the trade. I offered to send you back your knives as well as a paypal payment which would cover all your shipping fees both ways and once you received your knives back and that paypal payment you then send the Jens Anso back to me. It was not until after you declined that offer because you said you liked the Anso and wanted to keep it that I went ahead and gave you the second reasonable offer of me sending back your knives and once they were received by you, you just send me $1200 for the Anso. I came up with $1200 because that is what you'd mentioned before was the trade value for your 2 knives and it was $200 off what I was asking and $150 less than an offer of $1350 I'd previously received. As I said I wanted to be fair since I was the one trying to undo the deal, I wanted to make sure that my offers to you were reasonable and where you would still be happy with the outcome.

"I have NUMEROUS text's from him stating that he knows " I DID NOTHING WRONG AND THE KNIVES WERE NOT MISREPRESENTED " but still wanted to reverse the deal because he wasn't "comfortable" so i said iv'e done a few deals where i wasn't thrilled but through no fault of the seller i just turned around and did a catch and release and told him he could get his 1200.00 by selling the two knives."

I have already touched on this but I will address it again. I absolutely did feel at one time that you did not do anything wrong, and I did not want to get into an argument over weather the knives were misrepresented or not. As I said our definitions of condition may differ. Of course I then found out the pictures you texted me were from 6 months ago and then it made sense why the pictures looked so different from what I had in my hand. Really its neither here nor there in my opinion since I was unhappy with the deal as soon as received the knives, I contacted you in a reasonable amount of time(within minutes of receiving them) and offered you a reasonable solution(undo of the deal AT MY EXPESNE of all the shipping costs). Most would agree that this is what should have been done.

"Now he's trying to get sympathy by stating he's going to " give away" the proceeds of the sale to charity, after calling me up and swearing at me and calling me names and then pranking my phone.

When he requested the reversal he knew he was wrong in asking, that's why he apologized for asking, clearly a case of remorse, i did nothing wrong and he was informed of the condition of the knife PRIOR to the deal getting done, i even asked him
NUMEROUS times to take his time and repeatedly was told that he was "fine" I also mentioned one time that he sounded "undecided" and again i was told he was "fine"."


I am not looking for sympathy from anyone, in fact that gesture is not anything warranting sympathy in my opinion, it was just my solution of making a negative situation into a positive one. The only reason I mentioned it was to explain that my intentions with this post was more to vindicate the feedback I had given you, that I was given a warning for(which I felt was unfair). Secondly after calling you to discuss over the phone I did get frustrated with the fact that you had no intentions of making this right for all parties to be happy. You after you told me "I guess you're just gonna have to chalk it up" I did have a weak moment and use some vulgar language I believe " that's fine you f***ing a**hole" was the term. I apologize for resorting to such immaturity, however that doesn't make me a bad person it makes me human. I can admit my faults and apologize for them. I can say that your accusation of me pranking your phone is completely untrue. In fact after we got off the phone I went to event at my wife's restaurant with for 2 hours and was not in contact with you whatsoever until later that night you decided to text me threatening to have me banned for posting negatively in your feedback. Which I actually told you up front I would be forced to do if this matter could not be resolved cordially.

As for apologizing for wanting to undo the deal, that is just a common form of politeness on my end. I did not want to jump the gun and go off on you over a simple misunderstand of condition. Therefore I nicely texted you apologizing for the inconvenience of undoing the deal. I don't see how this is any indication of me being in the "wrong", hopefully others will agree.

As I stated from the beginning Scott, you seemed to me to be a nice and honest guy all the way up until I received my end of the trade and was unhappy then something changed. Your tone changed completely, that is when I started to question your true intentions from the very beginning. I did some digging and found some things(the date of the pictures) that made me question it even more. I'm not going to sit here and tell others what your intentions were because I honestly don't know. What I do know is that in any deal both parties should be happy when all is said and done and if they aren't the most reasonable course of action is to simply undo the deal especially if the person unhappy is willing to incur all of the costs associated with the transaction.
 
the pics i sent him were when i purchased the knife and it is in the same condition as when the pics were taken as it has been in a pelican case

Did you alert them that the pics were outdated? It doesn't matter whether or not it's been in a case the entire time, they are not current and should not have been represented as such.

Either way, this could be easily be resolved by reversing the trade. This community is based on bargaining in good faith, and in this case, one party is not satisfied and is willing to work fairly with the other but the other is not.
 
If I was in that position, I had done nothing wrong and my trade partner had buyers/traders remorse....as it appears....I wouldn't undo the trade either. Why would I, and why should Scott? The mantra "A deal isn't done until both sides are satisfied" doesn't include second thoughts and traders remorse.....in my humble opinion. If it does, I'll never engage in a trade deal again.......

Then why not undo the trade?



Then why wouldn't he undo the trade?

Lots of stuff seems fishy in this he said story.

-The need for us to understand that the deal was not done on BFC so feedback here isn't warranted.
-unwillingness to reverse the trade.
-willing to pay all shipping for the trade to be undone
-selling the knives and giving the money to charity

These things raise red flags in my mind.
 
Would seem fairly simple to just undo the trade. If kevin is offering to pay for all shipping and seachip to be out nothing; what is the problem?
 
It does not appear to be "traders remorse" at all... It appears that the knife was not in the same condition as the picture showed...
 
I'm sorry but i never threatened to have you banned, all i said was that retaliatory feedback is a grounds for being banned. Unfortunately i don't wield that kind of power, and my phone wasn't pranked until the following day.

True i did mention my feed back for a reason for you to ship first but that was after you agreed to the deal and i had no idea before that we were talking about the same knife as earlier discussed on BF.

Kevin DO NOT call me a liar as i have the first text you sent me upon receiving my knives where you stated the one knife was not what you were "expecting" and you would probably just "sell the knives".

Regardless this is not worth the headache and because my rep is worth more than ANY stinking knife and even though I still believe i have DONE NOTHING WRONG I will return his knife once he contacts spark and has the bogus feed back removed and he sends my knives back along with return shipping funds.

And kelama I look forward to NOT doing business with you in the future.
 
Did you alert them that the pics were outdated? It doesn't matter whether or not it's been in a case the entire time, they are not current and should not have been represented as such.

Either way, this could be easily be resolved by reversing the trade. This community is based on bargaining in good faith, and in this case, one party is not satisfied and is willing to work fairly with the other but the other is not.

I could take a current pic with my phone and it would show EXACTLY the same image as i sent him previously, like I stated i NEVER carried the knife and it was in the SAME condition as when i received it, apparently he's got a better phone.
 
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If I was in that position, I had done nothing wrong and my trade partner had buyers/traders remorse....as it appears....I wouldn't undo the trade either. Why would I, and why should Scott? The mantra "A deal isn't done until both sides are satisfied" doesn't include second thoughts and traders remorse.....in my humble opinion. If it does, I'll never engage in a trade deal again.......

Thanks for the vote of confidence Jay, it's just not worth the headache! and I will be more careful of who i deal with in the future....
 
I could take a current pic with my camera and it would show EXACTLY the same image as i sent him previously, like I stated i NEVER carried the knife and it was in the SAME condition as when i received it.

At the end of the day, the pictures were not current. And that's what matters. I personally don't agree that the knife is in the same condition between your photos and the ones taken by OP, but IMO it's a moot point anyway since the pictures were not current.
 
I'm sorry but i never threatened to have you banned, all i said was that retaliatory feedback is a grounds for being banned. Unfortunately i don't wield that kind of power, and my phone wasn't pranked until the following day.

True i did mention my feed back for a reason for you to ship first but that was after you agreed to the deal and i had no idea before that we were talking about the same knife as earlier discussed on BF.

Kevin DO NOT call me a liar as i have the first text you sent me upon receiving my knives where you stated the one knife was not what you were "expecting" and you would probably just "sell the knives".

Regardless this is not worth the headache and because my rep is worth more than ANY stinking knife and even though I still believe i have DONE NOTHING WRONG I will return his knife once he contacts spark and has the bogus feed back removed and he sends my knives back along with return shipping funds.

And kelama I look forward to NOT doing business with you in the future.

Based on your less that ethical attitude demonstrated on this dishonest trade, Sechip, I think that this is the perfect solution.

And this is exactly why we need the GBU- ACCOUNTABILITY! It is because of this forum, & many of the other member's respected opinion's, that gave you the clarity to see who exactly, was being unreasonable here.

Excellent job, Kevin. I'm glad that your perseverance, & the truth, paid off for you!
 
At the end of the day, the pictures were not current. And that's what matters. I personally don't agree that the knife is in the same condition between your photos and the ones taken by OP, but IMO it's a moot point anyway since the pictures were not current.

This is a more current pic of the knife and it shows EXACTLY the same as the other pic's i sent him.

 
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Undoing the trade, while annoying, is probably the best way this time. If kevin5 is paying shipping etc. then at least you won't be out $$.

I'd suggest that BOTH parties take pics of the knives before they send them back just so there can't be any more question about condition when they receive them back. It would be even worse if knives returned to their original parties and either one thinks the other scuffed, scratched etc. for retaliation. Very doubtful I'm sure, but always good to cover your butts

EDIT: On an unrelated note, nice Nighthawk!
 
Undoing the trade, while annoying, is probably the best way this time. If kevin5 is paying shipping etc. then at least you won't be out $$.

I'd suggest that BOTH parties take pics of the knives before they send them back just so there can't be any more question about condition when they receive them back. It would be even worse if knives returned to their original parties and either one thinks the other scuffed, scratched etc. for retaliation. Very doubtful I'm sure, but always good to cover your butts

EDIT: On an unrelated note, nice Nighthawk!

yeah thanks, minus the idiot scratch!
 
certain light hides fine scratches... you should do your best to capture these fine scratches and disclose them so the other person can make an informed decision. I think the feed back should stand.

Edit: also different angles along with light can show or hide scratches... if you take a photo of a knife to make it look good also include a photo of the fine scratches.
 
Based on your less that ethical attitude demonstrated on this dishonest trade, Sechip, I think that this is the perfect solution.

And this is exactly why we need the GBU- ACCOUNTABILITY! It is because of this forum, & many of the other member's respected opinion's, that gave you the clarity to see who exactly, was being unreasonable here.

Excellent job, Kevin. I'm glad that your perseverance, & the truth, paid off for you!

There is nothing wrong with my ethics and like i said it's just not worth it, i could continue this ad nauseum because i feel i'm in the "RIGHT" but it's just not worth the headache.

Let the "truth" set you free.
 
Just a friendly note on reputations.

In my experience, it's almost always the case that people do far more harm to their reputations in how they respond than in anything said about them. This thread should serve as a good object lesson in that regard....for both Kevin5 and sechip.
 
Scott,

We have never done a deal with each other. Your feedback up until this transaction was 100% stellar. I wasn't involved in this trade, but from the outside, it just appeared that you guy's should have been able to agree upon undoing the trade, simple as that.

My purpose of being here on BF is not to make enemies (I guess I have 2 more now), but to enjoy this passion that we all share: KNIVES!

Any trade on BF (or anywhere for that matter), that we partake in, is a gamble! Here on the forums, we all risk this type of scenario possibly happening to us.

For what it's worth: I am happy, that the 2 of you will now be able to work this situation out.
 
I'm no enemy...certainly not over something as inane as knife trading. However, your conciliatory words now don't undue your fireball tirade to start with....had you started your conversations with Scott in this fashion, I doubt his or my response would've been as harsh. And also for what it's worth, you could just man up and apologize rather than the grand Rodney King "can't we all just get along" gesture you attempted.

Scott,

We have never done a deal with each other. Your feedback up until this transaction was 100% stellar. I wasn't involved in this trade, but from the outside, it just appeared that you guy's should have been able to agree upon undoing the trade, simple as that.

My purpose of being here on BF is not to make enemies (I guess I have 2 more now), but to enjoy this passion that we all share: KNIVES!

Any trade on BF (or anywhere for that matter), that we partake in, is a gamble! Here on the forums, we all risk this type of scenario possibly happening to us.

For what it's worth: I am happy, that the 2 of you will now be able to work this situation out.
 
I have contacted Kevin and he's working out the details on his end and as soon as he does i will be shipping his knife out.
 
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