Trade gone south

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You are right Jerry, I do owe ganjakid an apology for jumping on him without hearing his side of the story first. However I still think that the way he handled his part of the trade was pathetic. He had no right to hang on to his knife until Jake's arrived so that he could decide if the trade was worth his while. I am sure he was also making sure he didn't get screwed in the deal and that shows me that he does not have the trust in others that is needed to be someone worth trading with. I would never trade with someone who did not have enough trust in me to send me his knife at the same time I sent him mine. That is just really bad form, in my books.
 
I BELIEVE this would be a GREAT opportunity for one of the "BIG-TRADERS" to step up and give us ALL a step by step set of "GUIDELINES" that we SHOULD all follow when we "TRADE" knives. BEYOND the common knowledge that BOTH parties who enter into a "REAL DEAL" should coordinate their shipping day to be as close to the same day as possible, the rest of the "FAIR TRADE" remains in a GRAY area.

SO, would someone[folks] kindly list the "ideals" steps we should all take when trading. One of the keys would be a good definition of a "FAIR TRADE".

Thanks......and have a GREAT Holiday season, and remember, it IS CHRISTMAS TIME!!!!!...............Ira;) ;) ;) BELIEVE
 
Originally posted by bandaidman
I have found this to be a very odd thread, but am glad things have worked out.

5. Thread enters the "weird zone" where someone offers to spend $1000 to settle a $75 issue. I find this very bizzare

6. Knife is found. I find it remarkable that someone would steal a knife, carefully reseal the package and replace it in the mailbox, then return the knife to the same mailbox without explaination days later.


I must agree with bandaidman's whole post.

It is truly miraculous that the thief actually took a huge SECOND chance and committed a second crime by putting stolen merchandise BACK into the mailbox.

Wow... what are the odds of that? :eek: :confused: ;)
 
Originally posted by wolfmann601
I BELIEVE this would be a GREAT opportunity for one of the "BIG-TRADERS" to step up and give us ALL a step by step set of "GUIDELINES" that we SHOULD all follow when we "TRADE" knives. BEYOND the common knowledge that BOTH parties who enter into a "REAL DEAL" should coordinate their shipping day to be as close to the same day as possible, the rest of the "FAIR TRADE" remains in a GRAY area.


I'm not a big trader. I've traded maybe 6 or 7 times so far. Probably completed one trade for every five I tried to negotiate. It ain't easy. Executing a trade is, oh, what, maybe 4-6 times as hard as simply executing a simple purchase or sale involving currency. It requires desire, equivalence agreement, cash position, timing issues to be synch'd up on both ends.

I'm sure some of the "BIG-TRADERS" maybe have some other ideas they can contribute. But here are a couple thoughts on the requirements for a good trade, from an infrequent trader:

1. requires two honest, straight-shooting people to begin with. That's the hardest part. GB&U helps, somewhat. Being willing to walk away from a knife you "really want", because you don't have any history on the other party, also helps. So do decent quality pictures of the actual merchandise if not production pieces that are easily described and pictured elsewhere. Or pictures of a maker's prior work that are representative of what the piece is going to look like, along with an accurate, conservative description of the pieces condition (grading "condition" is a whole guideline document unto itself).

2. yeah, simultaneous shipping should happen, unless a delayed shipment is agreed to, up front. Otherwise, one doesn't trust the other; see #1.

3. requires a 3 day review period stipulation, and both parties must agree in writing to this up front. The trade is not complete until both parties confirm to the other in writing (EMail) that they are satisfied with the trade ... and do so BEFORE the traded goods are carried, used, or for cryin' out loud, traded or sold to another party! (I'm amazed to hear stories like this. Such total BS.)

4. Ship your merchandise in some trackable and/or insurable form! At least use USPS Priority Insured (insured gets you a signature) so you can get postal inspectors involved if you need some help. Delivery confirmation helps if you don't want to insure something below say $80 (but costs money also). Yeah, a$$holes can ship empty boxes, but US Mail fraud ain't the kind of thing you want to discuss w/ a government postal inspector. Fedex and UPS are private companies, you have no help from a US agency inspector from what I've heard.

5. trade or sell overseas at your own peril. I've done it twice, it ain't pretty. Probably won't again. A trackable package overseas is hard to accomplish, and at a minimum, you've got two things working against you:
a. you often have unethical Customs pukes rifling through your package, and in one case of mine, they took off all the bubble wrap to look at a $300 knife, and then threw it loose back into the soft tyvek envelope, the a$$holes. It wasn't damaged but could have been.
b. Not to mention any kind of intervention if you get shafted by the potential buyer/trader in a foreign country. Whatcha gonna do? Fly to Singapore and grab some skinny scumbag by the trachea over a couple hundred dollars?

Trading and bartering hassles are why intermediaries like "cash" and cash equivalents (MO's, checks) were created waaay back when ["I'll trade you my cow for those four pretty female sheep over there." "No, you can't have that one, she's my favorite, how about those three over there and this pitchfork?" "Over where?" etc. ]

By the way, money orders drawn from the USPS are replaceable if lost up to certain limits, as long as you keep your paperwork/receipt.

Cashier's checks from banks at a minimum require a long wait (3-6 months) if lost, and some banks may consider them "lost like cash, gone" if lost. MO's often are not replaceable at all if drawn on bank, credit union.

[Sidebar: One guy kept Emailing me with questions, I kept sharing knowledge with him. I don't have that much, but what knowledge I have I got from others, so I will share. Conversation lead to my telling him I had a forged knife made by Dick Runkerly (not his real name) to my specs, ironwood, mokume, forged... and this guy decides he just HAS TO HAVE that knife, my knife. I didn't want to trade or sell. He really wanted it. Went back and forth, found a piece I thought I might like in his collection. We traded. I didn't really care for the knife I got that much, but thought I could resell for a break-even. He decides the custom forged knife I sent was a POS and the blade was crooked to boot (I hadn't noticed any crookedness myself), and he didn't really want it now, and wanted his piece back! He sent it back, and was pissed off at me, and I obliged and returned his "Zim Towada" knife back to him. Amazing. You gotta be prepared to waste another round of shipping/insurance costs and a suppression of your bile and just unwind the deal, cleanly.]
 
Keith,

I agree with you . This has been one very odd thread . I too wonder why the knife from Ganja was not shipped .

In the selling I have done , when someone pays me , I send a tracking # to them right away so they know the package is on its way . The receipt has all the info on it , insurance, weight, date,time , where it was sent from , and destination . I'm new at this forum stuff but not to the knife world . There has to be alot of trust between two people who have never met to send pricey blades across country . I have gone so far as to tell people I just did not feel comfortable with the situation and not do a trade or sell with them .


I just bought a knife from Bill Buxton , I sent the money order by mail , a few days later he had not gotten it . I immediately cancelled the money order and Fed-exed another overnight . I felt this was the proper way to handle the situation .

Regards to all , Merry Christmas and Happy Honaka
Jerry and Family

Having a hard time spelling today
 
I'm relatively new here, so I am not sure if there is a BladeForums Thread Hall of Fame. But if there is this one needs to be in there.

I caught up with this one 2 pages in and have been following silently. But man this baby has it all. Moderators here's my vote for a thread Hall of Fame for this one. If there isn't a Hall, let's begin one with this thread.

Glad to see it resolved with peacefully (with only a little skin taken off Ganjakid's A$$). But it did get pretty heated. But now we can all rest easy for the Holidays with a little more knowledge on how not to do a trade.

JT
 
Well to be honest with yun'z, I didn't know I had to send my knife at the same time the other party sent theirs. The way I saw it, his knife was payment for mine, therefore I held mine till I got his. I didn't know I was breaking some kind of "rule" by doing so, this was my first trade. Hey we live and learn, and I learned.
 
Ganja ,

Yes we all live and learn ( albeit a hard lesson some times ) . Good luck with further sells/trades .

Jerry
 
I'm still having trouble understanding all this. Something is missing from this picture. Are we to believe that someone got into a mailbox, opened the package and stole the knife, carefully sealed the package back up, and then came back a few days later and put the knife back? I'm sorry, but I still smell a rat somewhere. Somebody is not telling all there is to know.:rolleyes:
 
Originally posted by bandaidman

5. Thread enters the "weird zone" where someone offers to spend $1000 to settle a $75 issue. I find this very bizzare

Somehow, I suspect that Wolfmann601 figured the odds of his having to cough out any money, at all, were pretty small.
 
rdangerer,
I for one take exception to your attitude to members of this forum who just happen to live outside the USA.
You may be surprised to find that there are actually honest, decent people living overseas,
the same as there are a$$holes within the USA, but you already know that, don’t you.

Could you please put a warning in all of your future posts in “ The Exchange Forums.”

Something like:
“WARNING – I only deal with US citizens, I regards all other people as dishonest scumbags”

I think a warning in GB&U is appropriate.
Do you want to do it or shall I?

Up yours mate!
 
Whoa -- where did that come from??? You might want to try reading rdangerer's post again, oupa ... you might find it looks different the second time through....
 
Having re-read the post, I admit that I may have been overly sensitive.
I apologize.
I cannot help but feel that there is an unpalatable undertone.
At least those dealers who do not want to trade outside the USA say so in their adverts.
 
I have learned NEVER to take things on their face. I have also learned that if something is important enough, especially one's NAME, and I can help, I DO. I do not just do it here, I HAVE DONE it 24/7 for 26 years.

Did I weigh the odds of having to expend $1,000 bucks? NO, I happen to be very good friends with a RETIRED Trooper from the area who does private Polygraph work on a full time basis. I had already talked with him BEFORE making the offer. The test was gonna be free. The other expenses were superficial, but as I have done for 26 years, I have spent my money to help find JUSTICE so many times, I have LOST count. Some folks are like that. I am such a rare duck?

Something is Missing. BUT ONLY FROM THE PUBLIC EYE. Jake, Ganja, and I are aware of the "missing link" that has NOT been posted. This is where I BOW out. I have done what I offered to do, and what was accepted by Jake and Ganja. Get to the truth of the matter and FIND JUSTICE for BOTH. The truth is, they were both VICTIMS.

If Jake or Ganja wish to post the facts that would make this all as PLAIN AS DAY, they certainly can do so. For me, I am BUSY NOW helping several other Formites squeeze the crap out of Simon in Ireland, who bilked them out of well over a Thousand Bucks. Funny, after 26 years years in LE, I have friends in the business ALL OVER the world. Right OUPA?:D :D :D ...Ira

Merry Christmas.
 
Originally posted by Gary W. Graley


Stephen Wright said that Someone broke into my house last night and stole everything I owned and Replaced them with an Exact Duplicate!...:D



:eek::eek:That's happened to someone else, too!!!:eek::eek:

;) :D
 
I'd be very suprised if they didn't return with an explanation of what really happened. They both came to this public forum to get support and tell their side of the story and resolve this situation with help from their forumites. Now that it's over it would be really strange to say "It's a private matter".

Have a great Christmas everyone,

Mer
 
Well I would syre like to know what it is that would make this all clear as day. Come on guys, spill the beans.

I am also still in wonder as to ganjakids statement that he did not know in advance that he should send his knife at the same time that Jake sent him his. If he did not know how this worked would you not think that he would ask? If he does not think he has to send his knife then he must think that Jake didn't have to send his either. That explanation makes absolutely no sense to me. Sorry ganjakid, but to me it still looks like you were just trying to get the upper hand in the trade and have all the cards stacked in your favor.
 
Hey guys, it turns out that the culprit is all of 12 years old with a little sister who is a tattletale. His mother told him he had to return it and face the music, only thing is she didn't tell him to put back in the mail box, that was his idea. I ran into her at the grocery store and she thanked me for being so understanding. I asked her what for and she spilled the beans. This afternoon she brought him over to the house and had him apologize in person. I'll be getting the snow cleaned off the walks and drive all winter and knowing his mom, I don't think he's sitting very comfortably tonight.
 
Glad to see a very happy ending. Of course there will always be those who doubt, no matter what the outcome of this was going to be. But, I feel great knowing that jack and Ganja wer able to have a lock-solid explanation as to how this "Deal went South", and in this case both were truly Victims of a 12 year old PUNK.

Now, I go back to collecting and being part of the blade forum community. BUT, as I have said quite alot of late, I have done this type of stuff my entire career, and now that I can no longer do this full-time, when an opportunity arises to nail a Thief, and Find JUSTICE, I get my ROKS off because it allows me to feel whole again and is quite theraputic(spell).

As Albert Einstein once said" "If you are about to find truth, leave elegance to the Tailor."

No one ever said THIS search was pretty, but I DO find it to be PRETTY INTENSE FUN:D :D
Now, Simon David McGlynn, you ARE in my SIGHTS. YOU have stolen well over one-thousand dollars from some very fine formites. I KNOW you stop in to read BF, so take this TODAY for what it is worth...I have had a very long conversation with a Dear friend in London, England. You BOTH share the same first name. He and his brother are Veteran Police Officers, Simon is a Sgt. in London, his Brother an Inspector in Scotland Yard (who could have asked for anything better!!!). Since I am absolutely POSITIVE you will disregard this post, I am arranging a "knock on your door". If it works as planned, the KNOCK shall arrive CHRISTMAS Eve. I HOPE you have CHILDREN. I want them to hear the Fine Police officer from YOUR Homeland explain how this shall end with YOU IN PRISON.
So Blow it off Simon David McGlynn. After the "knock and talk", Talk becomes "cheap" and the gentlemen you scammed here in the GREAT USA shall pursue this and you SHALL require "soap on a rope". So Simon David McGlynn do the RIGHT thing and ship THOSEKNIVES or reimburse those folks.
TO ALL (but Simon) have a very NERRY Christmas. Simon, you have a great deal of work to do, get cracking............Ira:p :p :p :mad:
 
Originally posted by Jake Evans
Hey guys, it turns out that the culprit is all of 12 years old with a little sister who is a tattletale. His mother told him he had to return it and face the music, only thing is she didn't tell him to put back in the mail box, that was his idea. I ran into her at the grocery store and she thanked me for being so understanding. I asked her what for and she spilled the beans. This afternoon she brought him over to the house and had him apologize in person. I'll be getting the snow cleaned off the walks and drive all winter and knowing his mom, I don't think he's sitting very comfortably tonight.



WOW, will miracles never cease?????????????? :rolleyes:
 
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