I'm an old new guy. I was encouraged to join the forum by some long standing forum members who I've been collecting / sharing knives with for many years. I had been thru a recent tragedy and they felt it would do me good, bring some happiness. I have visited Blade Forums over the years but I finally joined this month. My first post was a reply to a question about new factory made axe heads and within 15 minutes another user pounced right on it with some rather disparaging words. Okay, I thought, this is how it works around here. I moved on to another thread and got into a heated discussion about knife brands. I tried to explain that I am a blacksmith but no matter. Oh boy, don't say anything about somebody's favorite knife (learning curve) My forum buddies were reading my post and visiting with me about the pros and cons thru our usual communication and I expressed how I was so discouraged from the posts that I had decided Well this isn't for me.
No wait, I was told, theres a place you can go and ask for advice on how to post, reply, and act. Really I asked. Why yes, I was told... Its called Whine and Cheese.
I had no idea what that really was, one "trusts" ones friends so away I went to the W&C. Meanwhile all my little advisory group turned on their laptops and sat back to watch.
Dear God......
W&C does one thing real quick. It harden tests your steel. I got called many colorful things by some amazingly "brilliant" forum personalities. They shred everything. Nothing is sacred. Your profile, your spelling, where you live, user name, all ripped. To my friends (two of which are mods here) who were monitoring the exchange it was like watching a comedy show. But I survived it and I'm learning to dance on this ballroom floor.
Here are some things I've learned so far:
1. W&C is NOT a forum advice column.
2. Stay on topic.
3. Don't post too much personal info unless it pertains to the thread. Nobody here really wants to read a persons resume' and if you relate something remarkable it probably won't be accepted or believed.
4. In line with that don't demand proof or authenticity. Just read on and glean the useful.
5. Like any large group of people there are those in here that are a real delight to hear from. When you find them ask to be thier friend. Watch how they post. Immitate thier methods.
6. Don't get fired up because someone who you don't know doesn't agree with you.
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7. W&C is not a forum advice column (I had to learn that one twice)
All in all it has been an educating if not enjoyable experience so far. Now on to month 2.
