Its pretty easy for me as a buyer, If seller wants $100 Gift, I say "I won't do that, but what I will do is $103 Goods." (if I want it bad enough). Or I say "I won't do that, but what I will do is $100 Goods." (if I want it sorta bad).
If the seller INSISTS on gift, I'm done and look for the next one, same as if on E-bay a guy wants 100 through E-bay and PP but only 90 if we do a personal deal.
I say I found the deal on the auction site, and we play by those rules. If the guy won't play by the rules, I am out.
If the seller INSISTS on gift, I'm done and look for the next one, same as if on E-bay a guy wants 100 through E-bay and PP but only 90 if we do a personal deal.
I say I found the deal on the auction site, and we play by those rules. If the guy won't play by the rules, I am out.