GT - Go read the sticky posts at the top of the Maintenance, Tinkering, and Embellishment forum. Great stuff about angles, bevels, apexes, burrs. Couple of inexpensive tricks to help you "get it" are use of a Sharpie to mark the edge, and a loupe or some other magnifier to inspect your work close up to see exactly where you are hitting and where you are missing.
I also like to use "slow" stones as a learning aid, because I can catch mistakes in my technique without a lot of needless metal removal. Arkansas stones are great for that and give me the "traditional sharpening" experience. Grandpa's type of stones on grandpa's type of knives.
If I have some major reshaping to do first, then I'll break out the diamonds or silicon carbide.
Oddly enough, sometimes I do better on a coffee mug bottom than I do with stones. I actually have three mugs with different "grits" at my desk at work, and between those and a legal pad back with some green compound rubbed on it, I can spiff up an edge pretty well.
My wife thinks it's funny that whenever I'm at Starbucks, I'll go browse the coffee mugs for sale, and the first thing I do is turn them over to check the quality of the unglazed ring on the bottom.