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You sent the money to him before he ever replied to you about whether you should send the money to the same account as the first payment.
Then you, after the fact, wrote him and told him you sent it...presumably because you were concerned about whether he was going to accept your offer of the lower price you negotiated in your multiple, and somewhat confusing messages to him.
In the interim, without having any additional information, regarding whether he is home, in the hospital, is aware that the payment was made etc, you have called him out as a thief who has stolen your money. After a day or two.
It's time to settle down a little. You can either wait to hear from him or contact your bank or credit card company to file a dispute or see what options you have.
After all the comments you made earlier about the seller, and after saying that you would wait to pay for the item after receiving the original purchases in the pipeline, it seems to make little sense that you went ahead and paid up front, contradicting exactly what you said you were going to do.
We, the moderators, can only wait to see if everyone is made whole before taking any action on the seller's account. To do otherwise might leave some folks with no way to communicate with the seller. This is why we are asking everyone to make it known here whether they received the items purchased.
ETA: I don't recommend you getting the address of the seller and showing up at his home. A better idea might be to contact the local authorities, rather than get yourself arrested in the process over a couple hundred bucks.
Then you, after the fact, wrote him and told him you sent it...presumably because you were concerned about whether he was going to accept your offer of the lower price you negotiated in your multiple, and somewhat confusing messages to him.
In the interim, without having any additional information, regarding whether he is home, in the hospital, is aware that the payment was made etc, you have called him out as a thief who has stolen your money. After a day or two.
It's time to settle down a little. You can either wait to hear from him or contact your bank or credit card company to file a dispute or see what options you have.
After all the comments you made earlier about the seller, and after saying that you would wait to pay for the item after receiving the original purchases in the pipeline, it seems to make little sense that you went ahead and paid up front, contradicting exactly what you said you were going to do.
We, the moderators, can only wait to see if everyone is made whole before taking any action on the seller's account. To do otherwise might leave some folks with no way to communicate with the seller. This is why we are asking everyone to make it known here whether they received the items purchased.
ETA: I don't recommend you getting the address of the seller and showing up at his home. A better idea might be to contact the local authorities, rather than get yourself arrested in the process over a couple hundred bucks.