When I was coming up in the trades (welder and machinist), the old timers didn't just spoon feed you everything. You weren't allowed to bombard them with questions. You really had to work at earning their respect and trust first. I can tell you all I put up with a lot of BS, a lot of ribbing, and a lot of jokes at my expense. Lose your cool with those guys, and you were finished. You had to work your balls off for quite a while, prove yourself first, and MAYBE one of them would finally show you something. When they did, you better just shut up and listen too. I saw a few know-it-alls come and go. Not one of them made it in the trade in the long run.
Times have changed. Unfortunately most of that old style ribbing isn't allowed any more (I tend to think it toughened you up!). In my day-job, MANY of the kids I see coming up think the world
owes them everything. They want it all, right out of the gate, and they're not interested in working their way up. In short, they were spoiled, and it shows. They expect everything to be handed to them, including information. Rather than doing a little research and working some things out for themselves, they just want the quick and dirty answer. I've got no problem helping someone out, in fact, teaching is my favorite part of my job(s). I just want to see a little effort on their part first, a little sweat perhaps.
Information is so much more accessible now. Most of the answers are already out there. You can find them if you're willing to put in a little time and effort. Research, read, watch, try things for yourself then ask, what did I do wrong? How can I improve this next time? Maybe then ask a question or two to somebody with some experience. That's how you learn.
"I hear, and I forget. I see, and I remember. I do, and I understand."
Like the saying goes, "The Lord helps those who help themselves."
Scott
p.s. "Can you make me a knife like this one, only with saw teeth on the top, and a shoulder rig? I call it the Covert De-animator. It sells for $100.00. Can you do it for the same price???"
p.s.s Photo courtesy of Chucks Wagon