^ There's no need to apologize. It would've definitely helped, had the actual rules been quoted here much earlier. The quote that Spartan posted, I believe was written by RevDevil, & is his own personal addendum, due to the rampant abuse of the BF's feedback system (somebody please correct me if I'm wrong).
There have been so many thread's & requests in Tech Support over this very issue (please refer to the other active GBU thread involving member Retired01). The innocent member that got dinged, will now have to appeal to Spark, to get his retaliatory feedback removed. Spark has made in very clear, that he is losing his patience over this BS!
Everyone here knows, that the feedback system is far from perfect. BF member "Happy Daddy," has had some pretty good takes on this issue, IMO. I don't really like using this phrase, but it's one of those situations where, "it is what it is"...far from perfect.