Hello all,
Some of you were wondering why I havn't chimed in yet, mainly to let the dust settle I guess. I know that when people are butt-hurt(myself included) they say things they might regret later, so again, I'm stepping back and evaluating the best course of action, thinking it through with a cool head. Also, this is the first time I've ever had to deal with a negative outcome from a deal gone horribly wrong, so this subforum's use is new to me, which is a good thing.
So first off, I better address the conspiracy theories. I did it, you know. After waiting year after year putting my name in the sacred Emerson Lottery hat, I scored, only to get it to my house and play hacky sack with a deadly weapon, get the centering all out of wack, and see if I could screw a guy over by taking OBLIQUE angled picks with a sophisticated camera and software, take $1200 and go nab a hooker for one of the greatest nights ever, flush all feedback and crediblilty down the drain for kicks!!?? Yeah OK
Seriously now, I'll tell you what I know. It's December now and I entered the Emerson Lottery as I always do every year trying to get one of my most sought after knives. My name was drawn... I was happy and kind of dissapointed at the same time, There is maybe 4 models that I was really hoping for, and If I finally got that one, I was going to EDC it for the rest of my life. I'm a one special knife carrier type of guy. Well, it didn't turn out that way, so for the past couple of months I was contemplating on what to do with the knife. Should I keep it, sell it, Use it? All the while I had it stored away utill I came up with a decision. I have yet to use a custom knife, until I find the right custom. Right now I use my trusty production mini CQC 15, have been for many years. Then I broke down and decided to sell the Custom and had thoughts to use those funds to purchase a model I was looking for, very hesitant of course because I didn't think I'd ever score another golden ticket. So from there, I took out my camera phone, couple minutes later had 8 pics and proceeded to upload them here (only could use 5). After a short time, I got a hit from the buyer, I was happy yet bummed at the same time. Even though I never used the knife, I got attached to the Idea of maybe keeping it. I consulted with the buyer and threw out the option of doing the gift paypal option to save him and I some money. I'll have to say it was very nice of him to offer to pay half of the paypal fees, so I accepted his kind offer and did just that. The very next day, I raced down to the post office after work around lunch time and sent it off, then sent the buyer pics of the tracking reciepts of both the shipping label and insurance label.
Everything's going great, life is good and a few days later I'm awaiting confirmation that the buyer recieved the knife, Friday night I got an email from the buyer starting out by him saying "Got the knife, Love the knife, it's a beauty, but there's a few things wrong with it"... I can still feel my damn stomach getting uneasy just thinking about it now. Went on to say that the lock is sticky which I knew since that's what I expect now from Emersons, and that there was some centering issue. I asked if the pivot was loose(did not ask him to mess with it) . He said no and that he did try to tighted and loosen it to get it to the desired effect. So then the offer was made to return the knife, little hesitant since it was a BNIB(still bag fuzz on blade) knife, the only one to make the knife right was Ernest himself. From there I offered to pay for shipping to EKI, buyer didn't like that Idea. Ok so now we're in a deadlock, what the hell do I do now.. I don't want to piss anybody off. Oh I know, ask the people that know best what to do for these types of situations, and not knowing the hiearchy or seniority of this place I looked and found 3 mods that post a bunch and gave them as much information as I could to get back some Ideas(was criticized for btw "now that you brought the mods into this"). NOW, if I had a clear ruling that I should accept return and move on we wouldnt be having this conversation. Some of the comments included his lack of knowledge of Emerson's perhaps, to being a buyer that cannot be pleased(buyer did admit to having return knives before to me in one of the emails), to be carefull when getting returns because you dont know if buyer messed with it (buyer did admit to messing with pivot screw) which means what else did he mess with? They also suggested that if I pay shipping to EKI this is an acceptible solution. So with all this spinning around and now asking myself, I'm as damn confused what to now as I was before haha. So I gave what the majority concesus, which was, " I cannot accept the return, but I'll pay for shipping to EKI". No go..
Then got an email saying there was PayPal dispute opened on me and that my balance of funds was removed..
Then got an email from buyer saying you might want to look at this thread "The good, The bad, yadayadayada"
Smear campaign started, felt shat on.. the kind of shat that's really yukky when someone attacks your character.
I get that cheaters and stuff should be brought to justice, but C'mon.
Now, I'd NEVER crap on a dudes character. I think, it's about 2 people butting heads is all. The buyer seems like a nice guy, just frustrated himself, so I'm not hating. Maybe he could've got some mod advice too?
So hear I am, what to do now? accept paypal's decision and move on? if you want to give suggestions (im still humbly listening) just PM me.
Thanks