Anyone ever have a boss that doesn't know how to unplug and works you to much. I haven't had a real job since before the global war on terrorism. I'm hoping this ends when I retire and get a real job
I've had a boss try to do that. Tried making me bring my work phone on vacation so I was available. "We buy you a cell phone so we can get ahold you." I was going to give them the phone back. But they eased up on that demand.
I like having 2 cell phones now. My work phone goes on "do not disturb" shortly after I get home and I don't look at it until the next work day. I've missed a few "emergency" calls like them calling to tell me to stay home because someone at the office caught COVID, but I'm fine not getting those until later. They all have my personal phone for real emergencies.
During my interview, I'm very clear on my limits, even in regard to business travel. If you give me no notice about a business trip, the place better be at risk of literally catching fire if we don't get there or it's a billion dollars in sales and I better be getting a nice commison on it (something I can retire from if I chose to).
My new place, started last December, has been very good about getting me advance notice and honoring the work-time/family-time separation.
My wife and I also try to live reasonably frugile, for our incomes, so that we can tell either job to to pound sand if they make stupid requests and not be too financially stretched, at least for a decent amount of time. I made that mistake before, where I felt forced to work a crap job or I wouldn't be able to afford living expenses. Took a decade, but that's very different now.