BG, we have spoken a few times, I don't think you're a bad guy, however, I think here you are incorrect. You say Peter's decision as to how to proceed doesn't make sense to you, but, the truth is, it doesn't have to, it makes sense to Peter, and he has every right to proceed any way he feels is best.
I understand, if you look at this very logically, his choice as to how to proceed might not make perfect sense to some, but, it isn't exactly way out there either, and the fact is, when humans are involved, there is more to a decision than sheer logic, people are creatures of habit and idiosynchracy, sometimes they feel like doing something a certain way for their own reasons and have their own thoughts on how something should be done, and I know Peter well enough to guarantee that when he says he will donate the proceeds, he will, and his wife will match, so, again, his course of action is hardly non-sensical, it might not be the way you would choose, but, it's not your knife, or choice.
I will say however, I would have liked it if this whole thing had been handled privately, and/or differently, I respect Peter, and I do understand why he did what he did, but I personally wouldn't have done it this way, I would have handled it privately, the Beggs have a great reputation, things happen that interfere with a schedule, even to the best, most honest makers, this seems like a rare exception for Todd, and if that's true, he didn't deserve this thread. On the other hand, not sure how I'd feel if I were in Peter's shoes, the wait was longer than it should have been, I think we can agree on that. Nobody's clearly right or wrong in this.
Ultimately, as often happens in the world of forums, you have 2 good, honest people, who get into a bad situation and it is the nature of forums like this to allow these sorts of problems to snowball and take on a life of their own, even if the parties might not have intended it to end up that way.
This is done as far as I can see, good people, bad situation, with a dose of internet forum, negativity spiralling thrown in.
Hopefully, since it looks like the knife is on it's way very soon, this thread can now die a peaceful death, and thankfully disappear.