but it turned into one, not even a war really, more like a pre-battle where everybody is rattling sabers.
I'm sure that everyone has their reasons for positions.
Let's say that it all is a gang mentality, for the sake of argument. We have a gang, here, they have a gang there.
I have never been in a "gang" per se, but am still associated with a "crew". We are inkslingers(tattoo artists). I have not tattooed anyone in about 2 years, but I am still "in", and my opinions carry a fair amount of weight, but some of the crew does not really like me very much, even though they love me, if that makes any sense.
One time, 4 of my crew beat a homeless guy senseless. His crime was pissing on one of our cars. The punishment fit the crime, but it didn't take 4 of us to do it. I went ballistic when I found out. I was ashamed at the lack of control my "boys" showed, it was unnecessary, it was a needless escalation of violence.
If the head of our crew was attacked by someone, he would insist that he be allowed to handle it, he was ashamed at the way the crew acted as well, and every one was held accountable. He thought that his dogs were better trained then that. That is the way he is. He is Honor personified.
We are accountable for the actions of everyone in our "gang". Their victories are our victories, their failures are our failures. That is what family and brotherhood is all about, and has been since before I landed on this planet, and so it will be long after we are all dust.
You cannot make someone do the right thing in your family, and you may feel beholden to defend them against outsiders, but you do have a responsibility to ensure that they hold up the beliefs, if there are any, held by the leaders of the clan. If you cannot in good conscience do so, and they will not behave according to the codes, that are more important than the individual, you must either leave the family behind, or expel the offending individual. These codes are not subject to interpretation, they are as unforgiving to the USMC as they are to the Cosa Nostra.
The family is only as strong as the individual members.
That being said, and thank you for bearing with me this long, if Kyle stole money from Dr. Dan, and is defended for doing so, that is wrong. More importantly, he should be mandated to make the wrong right, or expelled from the family. It is so simple, but has become twisted by pride, and by misguided loyalties.
Either way, the problem will not go away until it is dealt with, dead horse or not.
Best Regards,
STeven Garsson
I'm sure that everyone has their reasons for positions.
Let's say that it all is a gang mentality, for the sake of argument. We have a gang, here, they have a gang there.
I have never been in a "gang" per se, but am still associated with a "crew". We are inkslingers(tattoo artists). I have not tattooed anyone in about 2 years, but I am still "in", and my opinions carry a fair amount of weight, but some of the crew does not really like me very much, even though they love me, if that makes any sense.
One time, 4 of my crew beat a homeless guy senseless. His crime was pissing on one of our cars. The punishment fit the crime, but it didn't take 4 of us to do it. I went ballistic when I found out. I was ashamed at the lack of control my "boys" showed, it was unnecessary, it was a needless escalation of violence.
If the head of our crew was attacked by someone, he would insist that he be allowed to handle it, he was ashamed at the way the crew acted as well, and every one was held accountable. He thought that his dogs were better trained then that. That is the way he is. He is Honor personified.
We are accountable for the actions of everyone in our "gang". Their victories are our victories, their failures are our failures. That is what family and brotherhood is all about, and has been since before I landed on this planet, and so it will be long after we are all dust.
You cannot make someone do the right thing in your family, and you may feel beholden to defend them against outsiders, but you do have a responsibility to ensure that they hold up the beliefs, if there are any, held by the leaders of the clan. If you cannot in good conscience do so, and they will not behave according to the codes, that are more important than the individual, you must either leave the family behind, or expel the offending individual. These codes are not subject to interpretation, they are as unforgiving to the USMC as they are to the Cosa Nostra.
The family is only as strong as the individual members.
That being said, and thank you for bearing with me this long, if Kyle stole money from Dr. Dan, and is defended for doing so, that is wrong. More importantly, he should be mandated to make the wrong right, or expelled from the family. It is so simple, but has become twisted by pride, and by misguided loyalties.
Either way, the problem will not go away until it is dealt with, dead horse or not.
Best Regards,
STeven Garsson