Wow, I keep trying to unsubscribe to this thread, or at least stop reading it, but I can't. In fact, I feel at this point that my reputation is being damaged by the fact that I belong to the USN (although I'm not a Suspect) and some of you iceholes continue to refer to the USN as an internet gang. Do you know what they call it in court when you publicly damage another's reputation? It's called slander and is actionable. Wouldn't it just suck to lose your house in a lawsuit because you couldn't keep your mouth shut or behave like a gentleman in an internet chat forum? It could happen (and no, this is not a threat, just a fact).
While I don't know DrDan, and I don't know Kyle, I've met enough guys from the USN in real life and formed real friendships, that if Kyle was a thief, he'd be banned there too. I find it interesting that Kyle was mentioned in this month's Blade amgazine and it's noted that quite a lot of folks have sent knives to him and had them returned. You'd think that if Kyle made a habit out of ripping people off, there'd be more than a lone complaint against him. Even if he exagerated the number of knives he's worked on by double in the article on Pimpin your Knife, Kyle appears to have taken care of an aweful lot of people or SOMEBODY else would be squaling somewhere. The knife community is not so large that this would go un-noticed.
The only evidence I've seen presented is that DrDan contends that Kyle didn't execute his end of a deal that NONE of us here were privy to. This is nothing more than hearsay. As I mentioned above, I don't know either guy and wasn't in on the deal, so I'd be unable to testify in court as to exactly what did happen.
To call a man a thief in no uncertain terms in a public forum is pretty serious deal. You'll never hear me call a man a thief, unless he's stolen directly from ME or been convicted in a court of law for that offence. Anyone who does differently is risking an aweful lot.
You guys keep going at this issue in this way and you could find yourselves crossing from slander all the way to terrorist threat in these sensitive times (terrorism and all).
I think some of the folks here who have been flapping their lips pretty hard ought to go take a long look in the mirror and consider what it takes to behave like a responsible adult. If a crime has been committed, the victim should report it to the authorities, or if he's unable to, someone else should do it for him. If there's no evidence of a crime, I'd think long and hard about slandering someone in a very public, well documented way. Seems like a bad idea to me.
Speaking of well documented, there's no such thing as an anonymous email. IP addresses are logged by ISPs just in case they're ever subpeona'd into by law enforcement or a civil court proceeding.
To those guys who got banned from an internet forum, get over it. I am proud to be a member in at least decent standing at both forums, but if I got banned from either one, it wouldn't dramatically affect my life. I've been hit by a speeding van, arrested, dragged through financial ruin in a divorce and generally pummeled in a variety of brawls when I was younger. If I lived through all that prospered, I'd survive a banning from an internet forum too, even one l really enjoyed too.
You have to keep a little perspective in life to keep from getting carried away with yourself. Excercise some self restraint. Be a grown up.
Like Kit said, I hope this works out acceptable for both of the parties involved (or something like that).
John