Dave, a point well taken but are my points to your concern not satisfactory examples of such? For I have pointed out that what you said about me at the shows goes for most of the forumites on either of these sites. Your point though was aimed at me particularly and when I hadn't been able to reply you make another comment to that fact inferring that I am maybe being quiet about it as if I thought I was doing something so horrible I best not speak it aloud for all to hear. Now, when a maker and a dealer agree to meet at a show to exchange, the dealer has paid to do such business. Does the dealer not have the right to decide how he does his business with the $800. he has paid? If I am asked for work by those who I have standing orders with, I deliver. Regardless of where. I did however, feel a bit guilty for the first time in doing so, thanks to the security person who rightfully thought I might be doing such but at the wrong time. However, had I sold in front of the guard to the dealers with tables who expected me or otherwise, there would never have been an issue. As has been the case in the past. I can recall selling to a dealer several times in front of show "officials" without a hitch...why? because that is part of the business the vendor came there to do. But since it has been pointed out, I will think twice about that and reconsider that part of the business. Do I feel it was dishonest? NO, because it wasn't done covertly or without the people's involved knowledge. But I do understand why a promoter might feel that. So I will consider their feelings on the issue. As for me carrying in a paper bag....I dont walk around the streets of NYC with a black leather bag that say KNIVES on it for all to see. They are to be out of sight in public. Otherwise it could be misunderatood as menacing. As well, it just isn't smart. As you can imagine, since I do not make folders, fancy knife bags usually do not hold larger fixed blades very well. So I usually individually baggy them and then rubber band the ones together that go to the appropriate vendor. That all said, I can safely say that I have never, ever sold to an individual at a show. I have never ever, walked around trying to unload my knives on individualsn or dealers. I have only walked with my knives in low numbers and showed them to friends and fellow forumites just as they do with their leather goods and their kydex and other knives they have brought to show and tell. I have only shown them and at some point later in the show I have sold them to the dealers that requested them. Last time was just as described. I thought that was part of the fun anyway? to show your wears...to talk about our habit. Our passion. The business done between individuals was just part of the fun, the community, the sharing of gear and of ideas. The making of new friends? Is that not part of it?
I guess I should expect to be attacked some how because of my backing of Dan. That is after all what happens whenever you question a Suspect and this is but a small example of why people here in this thread have attacked the other site for doing what is happening here now. As moderators and as contributing members of a site you must REPRESENT the site and only the site before the individual with impartiality. That is the responsibility. Especially without knowing the facts first hand. And more so after enough evidence in Dan's favor thus far. Is it in the hands of the customs agents?...maybe but after the way Dan was treated it is hard for him and for any bystanders here to think that the right thing was done to Dan's content. The very fact that Kyle would say, I will mark it as a knife and blah blah to screw him with the customs agents is still, not the right thing to do. Any maker who does business out of the states will tell you they mark it a gift and a tool and such so that the customer gets their goods back. If it is in customs hands, it's because Kyle made it so.
In the end, yes, yes....we all have flaws. This I know all too well and I am very familiar with some of my flaws. My new wife is familiar with them as well. That said, ripping someone off or forcing the loss of property is more than a flaw, it's intent. When made public for all to view it is even more so. If Dan were here in the US, it would be a whole lot easier for him to take legal action. Especially considering all the public proclomations by Kyle on the issue. When I had my debacle with him one of my closest friends who is a lawyer offered to take on the issue as a case because when he saw the emails I still had and the flaming online he saw it as harmful to my new business and told me it would have been a sure bet I'd win because of all the slander. I am not much for suing people or going to court and all that hassle (I'm more the "let's argue it out" or Let's duke it out kinda guy.). However, I take the a civilized route first and discuss before claws come out and people get all wriled up. I let it die and that was that. Washed my hands of them and them of me. Whether a case could have been won or not is a useless argument now. Now Dan comes along and I could do nothing but sympathize with him as I feel much of what he must feel so I chimed in. Dan has showed little ego in this situation other than being the offended party. Kyle has shown much ego only fueled by the support of his friends even with his open statements of slander on Dan and with holding and possibly/probably sending his knife so that customs will seize it and keep it from it's rightful owner. Similar in structure to what happened with me. His ego only fueled by those who didn't know me well or my character. Adding insult to injury and then trying to attack my business which had nothing to do with our trade. Using schoolyard tactics (that work quite well), name calling and banning before he was able to properly defend himself and then post if he recieved his knife or not. The pot and the kettle are both black so no one needs to remind them, they know well. So do we. So where's the point? other than people keep this thread alive because they are curious to see if Dan has gotten his knife back like he deserves to.
Hugs and Kisses everyone...