Don't mean to drift this much but either he'll answer or he won't. What I'd like to cover is something we seem to have glossed over...
Personal attacks ie 'name-calling' which is directed at a person, their business, background, or livelihood and used in a demeaning manner.
Jack, in case you've failed to read the Forum rules this is a no-no on all Forums even in Whine and Cheese. Almost without exlusion, every thread I've seen you speak up/out in you've used this tactic. That is wrong and unacceptable to both the person you are directing it toward as well as those of us that share this Forum and have to read your attacks. Your calling Ryan 'Trinket Boy' was a personal attack and you used it in an aggressive manner during a period which you claim to be "... adding some humor to lighten up the situation." So, per your statement, you find humor in demeaning other people and their livelihood/business. That is sick and twisted and very similar to the behavior exhibited on a playground in Grade School which I find fascinating but no less sick or twisted because at the same time you claim to be the good guy in the situation. ??
In case your mentality is truly that of a child let me put this another way... You calling Ryan 'Trinket Boy' is the same as someone calling you a 'Fatherless Bastard'. You see, you took personal information and used it in an inflammatory way against a person who is respected in this community and had a legitimate complaint against you... Despite your claims, he has a legitimate complaint whether he or you is right or wrong. I think you would probably flip out, for lack of a better word, if someone were to use 'Fatherless Bastard' in a similar manner.
Note, very carefully now, that I have used this as an extreme example ONLY to try to reach you emotionally as I would a child who does not understand something... I would not and have not called you that but am using it only as an example to give you an idea of the gravity of the situation which arises when you attack someone else. I wouldn't wish misery of that type on anyone and feel truly sorry about your loss. Do you see how someone might feel similarly if you attacked them or their business or livelihood? I hope that is clear.
I would like to appeal to any higher sense you may have and ask you never to use these tactics again. I don't know if anyone else has said anything or if Moderators have warned you but I, personally, have read enough of this type from you and am now asking as a Member of this Forum for you to stop.
Shawn