GigOne said:
I highly suspect that HE would have continued his tactics ...
Possibly, but you have to consider more than the individual in question. If you have one person who acts unreasonable while everyone else stays civil he quickly starts losing all strength of arguement and it is near impossible to have that viewpoint supported.
However when his opposition starts backsliding and throwing insults it actually lends credibility to his arguement. Lots of people won't read the background, just notice the degredation. It isn't just the customer/dealer, or even the people in the thread, lots of people could support him but not post because of wanting similar labeling.
Now you could argue this achieved a positive result as it prevented these posts, but actually those people will still argue their case, they will just do it in a place where you can't respond. If however you create a forum where they feel comfortable to post then you not only see and are aware of their complaints then you can actually address it and prevent your side.
brightedge said:
When Roger called me and basically called me a liar ...
Put yourself in his position. Obviously you know what kind of person you are, how is he supposed to. You are not disputing the condition, just as to how it was arrived. There are people who will sell used knives, and there are those that will lie about it. That is life.
So a guy gets a knife while based on his experience looks used, considering the cost and time and effort he is likely very angry. Should he give you the benefit of the doubt - ideally yes. The best responce from him would be to contact you and ask you to explain the situation.
But instead he acts unreasonable, now you can continue in this manner and act so as to encourage his behavior or you can act to deflate it. It is harder to do the latter than the former, but it is generally more productive.
...just look a little further back in this one and you will see a very positive post about me, and I'll be damned if it is not the SAME DAMN KNIFE!!
Why would this make any difference, different people have different standards. You could easily find someone who would reject a knife based on fit and finish issues while another would have no problems with it. I accept knives all the time which have problems that lots of people would never tolerate.
-Cliff