My usage of the word almost was a simple nod to the fact that you never can tell....each and every situation is different.
In my experience if a customer is too demanding,insulting or telling you how to manufacture or run your business, it is best....especially if money has exchanged hands to politely decline the sale/order, refund the customer and part ways before the situation can be made worse by either party in the myriad of ways a deal can go south. Reacting to poor behavior with poor behavior is never a good thing. With that said there are those people, sometimes customers, that can rub the wrong way and some are never satisfied, those should also be treated as above.
My warning for "fixing posts" was nothing more than a warning to everyone to step back and not make the problem worse by poor behaviors.
Do we all.....everyone included possibly get pushed too far and react poorly at times? There isn't a person here, myself included....with the possible exception of Mr. Benyamin

who hasn't.... do we deserve the chance to right the wrong? Probably. Multiple chances?...possibly....up to a point.
I am not going to lie and not say that, considering that some of this has happened before.
The gunhammer fiasco. The money order sent for product not received.... The non disclosure agreement :barf: .....that I did not consider discussing with my fellow moderators about the closing of the DDR forum. I'm not going to say that it could not happen in the future should these things continue to be a problem and efforts are not made to rectify these past problems....
I can only state that If it were my business and name being brought up in this manner, that I would be doing everything possible to ensure that my representatives would be acting not only in my best interests, but in those of my customers and to insure that any product made by and endorsed by my standards lives up to them wholly to the best of my abilities. Those acting on my behalf for manufacture, quality control and customer service would be obligated to act in the same manner. If I value my business and my customer, you can bet things will be set and done right, if I have to personally oversee every inch and transaction.. no matter how many shows, personal appearances, whathaveyou that I have to miss. I do not need to ask the opinions of other to know what is right. I was brought up by my parents to know the value of personal integrity, honesty, forthrightness and manners. I expect it also from those with whom I associate and with those with whom I do business.
Do I expect perfection? Hardly. We are all human, all fallible....but I do expect and appreciate the effort.
I will also state that to expect a manufacturer, such as Mr. Ralph, to personally grind, mill, sharpen....etc every part, parcel, whatnot of every knife in his shop is fantasy. There are plenty of others who work the same way. There is no possible way for one person to do all this work and produce product that will even touch a fraction of demand. Those that do personally touch every facet of their work are few, their pieces command an astounding premium (talking thousands of $ here) and their wait times can sometimes be counted in years, not months.
Communication is key and paramount. Your paid customer is your living. An old adage learned right here on the forum goes....a paid for knife is the hardest one to make. Your customer has entrusted you with a goal, to be who you say you are and do what you say you can and what you will do. If you promise updates, do them promptly as scheduled. If you promise pics, provide them as agreed. As I've already stated, under promise and over deliver and you can almost never go wrong. Integrity is not what you do when everyone is looking.... it is what you do when no one is looking.
Sorry for the rant folks... I started this post after getting home from spending time with dear family members and driving 500+ miles from 8am-11pm with only a couple hours in a standing, non moving position. I hope my points a clear and understandable.