Hi Sal, this is my first post after a few months absence.
I have been carrying my spydies almost exclusively since Christmas. I sure nejoy my Meercat (My cat gave it to me!) and I won Dialex' Adventura contest in April and that knife has sure been a pleasure (to my surprise, to be honest!).
I WILL get a Manix this year, as that is probably an almost ultimate knife for me. That said, I would love something like the Para to go with it. I was very excited to check out the Para in person a year ago, but two things turned me of of it. I am a tip up kind of guy, but you have had lots of input on that already. The other main point for me was that when I held the handle, it always felt like I was going to slip right onto the blade. The texture was grippy and the handle shape was confortable, but I found that the negative rake of the blade and the choil geometry and such for me made my hand feel way too close to the blade. I will check out a Para again when I can to see if maybe I was having an off day. But compared to the Manix, the Para made me feel like I was in danger of cutting my hand, while the Manix felt like tomatoes and sticks and boxes and all that EDC stuff I cut were in danger of being cut; no handle issues whatsoever.
I hope this helps. I love the idea of the COmpression lock and the size ov the Para blade and its shape. It just doesn't feel secure to me as it is.